Susan
I would like to go through this process and ask for assistance.
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Rohit Hi Susan,I will be working with you. I have some basic rules and expectations. BE 100% HONEST . DO NOT AGREE TO ANYTHING YOU ASSUME TO BE TRUE INSTEAD QUESTION EACH AND ...

Bjorn: Thank you for adding me to this group.
I am 35 years of age, three kids and so on.
I feel like I have found what I was looking for for all of my life.
Falling deeper into it as we speak, into this bottomless nothing.
Just enjoying the scenery, the sights, the smells, the tastes, the sounds.
I ...

Paul Hi Rohit
I came across a thread in the dharmaoverground that mentioned this group and its work in helping people see not/no self, so thought I’d come and check it out
October 8, 2012 at 11:53am · Like

Rohit good. One important thing to ask is, that whatever
teachings, beliefs or spiritual ...

Hi George,
How is it going?

Hie Happy new year,


So, Montse.

What more does the body do without an "I" directing it? Look at your entire day. What activity does the "I" direct, and what happens on its own?

Let me know what you find.

love,
Rohit

There is no effort in this, this isn't some puzzle you have crack.

It's not hard, you are just making it harder for yourself.

Don't think about looking, just look for a self and tell me what you see.

Effortless observing is only ever what's happening. Even if you close your eyes, there is still ...

Good :)Keep writing....and look!
Notice that thoughts come and go by themselves. They are just thoughts. And there is nothing that controls them, they roll one after another and there is no way to stop or get rid of them. Like a river that is running freely.

Look at thoughts as the labelling ...

Okkie...we will go slow :) sorry :)
Lets start again....
Here we start:
Write this down on a paper.
There is no self at all in reality. No me that lives my life.
Watch, wait, notice, write- what comes up? Is there fear? Is there doubt? Resistance? Frustration? Something that wants to scream and make ...

Hi

Do you see no-self?

or see that there is no self?

Focus on the absence of an experiencer behind the experience.

What you call I doesn't exist and it never existed. It was nothing more than an unchecked assumption for the cause of the experiencing of the life that is. That division, like all mind made divisions however, are not real.

The I which ...

Hi
I did not mean to be rude :) just wanted to push you a little harder but maybe it did not help.
the only one who's turning this into a "personal problem" is you.

How could anything be a personal problem?

How could it?

Now please stop whining and look at what we're asking

Investigate whether ...

"I" is generally automatically assumed. I'm thinking about what i have to get ready for tonight for the morning ("I" is automatically assumed in that thought). Then there are thoughts of what is happening tomorrow and what is likely to be needed. Then there are thoughts of what can be left for the ...

are you honest enough to truly question the foundations of your entire being?

I truly hope so. I'm not asking you to believe anything I say, or take it at face value. Instead, ask yourself if what I'm saying is credible. Is it possible?

Is it possible that there is no see-er, only seeing. No you ...

Your belief and your faith and your opinions and your trust are useless. What you need is honesty. The honesty that asks, "Is this true?" without concern to its consequences. Pondering the ramifications, implications, and results of this is fantasizing and masturbation. Trying to take it down, is ...

The assumption of 'self' is used in a very specific way - this 'self' is assumed to be the 'thing' to which life happens, and the 'thing' that is pulling the strings. A actual 'thing' - the brain assumes in ignorance that there is actually a 'thing' called 'me'.

MY body
MY thoughts
MY emotions
MY ...