Hi Mesredez,

My name is Cody and I would be happy to be your guide if that is okay with you. Please let me know and we can get started.

Best,

CD

Hi Rabanne,

My name is Cody and I would be more than happy to help you. If that is okay with you please let me know and we can get started.

Best,

CD

Sounds good Ben :) No rush.

I apologize for just responding. I never got a notification.

I get so easily distracted with the pain. My mind will jump into any opportunity to try and solve it, of course it never will.

right. It never will. It creates problems that don't exist and then it tries to solve them.

That was a ...

I can't know for sure if it's true due the fact that the story changes a lot depending what situation I'm in. The pain gets different names.

I know the pain can be intense and it can change, but just know that it can never truly hurt you. Just feel it. Writing down the thoughts that run during ...

And no worries about the pronouns, but that's where all of this gets tricky.

For example when you say "I am close." A thought doesn't get close. That whole thing is just a story. If you look into experience right now you'll notice (similar to what you said) that it isn't really an "I" that is here ...

It "feels" like there's a me, what difference does it make if there isn't? Hmm... This feels like a sullen child. Comes up quite a lot.

The difference is that there isn't a separate 'you' at all. And when there's no separate you, there is also no other.

Nothing bad that ever happened, occurred ...

No one typing. Just life living. Thoughts about what's happening. Expectations. Is this it? But a lightness, relaxation, acceptance of things.
I was struggling to find something that isn't there. That was the trouble. It was like I expected to find the observer. It still "feels"like there is one ...

I am not good enough to be with other people

Ask, is it true? Can you absolutely know that it's true that you're not good enough to be with other people?

Okay. Sounds good. Thanks for the updates.

What kind of pain is it? Physical or emotional?

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Thanks for checking in.

It did go well. I'm all moved in now. Thanks for asking.

It occurred to me the other day that I never really thanked you for taking the time to guide me. It's a really generous thing to do, to help people like this. So, thank you.

You're welcome. I'm happy to help out ...