Hey man, really sorry with the late reply..

Ok, I checked and still can't locate the me.

Great start ;)

I know I'm not my thoughts, but I'm not sure who is thinking them, they just keep showing up.

Exactly, they're just happening, right? Well seen, and congrats for just looking and not ...

Ok, but is it really you, or do you assume it is? Did you ever check?

Let's strip this down completely to it's core parts, one question at a time.

Can you locate the self, the controller, the guy in the engine room? Can you say, 'this is it, this is me'?

(I know that's 2 questions but kinda the same ;))

Just that though ok, we'll break it down slowly..

Hey, still awaiting reply for my post, what's happening for you?

Hey, awaiting a reply to my post, what's been happening for you?

Hey Tiffany, it's been a while, what's been happening for you?

It's been a while my friend, anything you'd like to discuss or share? I'd be happy to help?

Hey guys, i'm back from my trip to the USA and i'm ready to work with an eager participant that wants freedom from self.

First come, first serve....

Dude, you're really over complicating this.

It doesn't happen 'really really slowly', it's just pure focused honesty. Just laser beam it on looking for a self ok? That's where you look, for a self, can you find one?

Forget everything you know of enlightenment, and Buddha, and Jesus and Zen koans ...

Was does it mean to be happy all the time Tiffany? This may seem a naive question but it has a purpose...

So, right this second, what's stopping you from being free? What makes you worry?

Are they real worries or made up?

No problem Tiffany, thought i'd check in and see how things were going.

How about you make a list of everything you expect liberation to be, and we'll go from there. Sound good?

That's great man, good description. You're seeing that looking is happening, but there doesn't need a 'me' to do that, right? It just is. Looking happens without the identity.

The mind created the identity, which was false. People expect enlightenment to be this grandiose achievement, but in ...

Tiffany, I miss you so. Where are you dear friend? :)

Hey, how are things going?

What's happening buddy?

I always found that pre-liberation, after i'd read Eckhart Tolle, it would give you this deep, peaceful, warm feeling for a while but it would never last. I also found this when reading the 'Tao de Ching'.

If we look at what's happening, is that the mind identifies with thoughts right? So, if we ...