Hello Kay,

What is it exactly that chooses to make decisions that present themselves as requiring immediate attention or by necessity of circumstances? What is it exactly that is making decisions?

There is no one to choose options or to make decisions. As "alternative options" occur in thoughts ...

Hi Kay,

A lot of worrying about decisions and choices has stopped. I no longer fret about "figuring out" what I should be doing with my life, with my days, with my time. Such questions or decisions used to torture me daily. I would wake up with the sense of dread over something I feared I had ...

Hello Kay,

Super! Thank you for the opportunity to clarify :)

On question #5 can she provide an example from experience regarding decisions?

Three months ago, I had to move my office to a new location. Not just my office, but a six office suite that I rent out to other practitioners. It's a ...

Fabulous Kay!

I look forward to all questions. Yay Snoopy!

This has been such a wonderful process, including even the banging of heads (at least mine!) against the wall at times ;) ... because of the pure clarity it led to.

Cheers to a master pointer! Challenging job!!

Love Danute

Hello Kay,


1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

No, there isn't. There is still a felt sense of "I" most of the time, but as soon as "I" look, or check, it disappears completely and I can see that "I" never was, in any real ...

Hello Kay,

I will need another day; things came up (related to work, not to the questions.)

Looking forward to savoring the write up!

With love,
Danute

Thank you Kay, I look forward to sitting with these questions! Yay!
XOXO- D

Hi Kay,

Thank you for the info and the link to further investigation. All of it is so helpful!


Has it been clearly seen that there has never been a separate individual that could control or own life or anything?

Yes, I can see that "a separate individual that controls or owns life or anything ...

Hi Kay,

Oh, that's great to know where we stand in the process. Thank you for the update on that!

Just have a look…is the ‘doing’ getting done because of your intention or is it just ‘happening’?

It's happening together with thoughts about intention. If there were no thoughts of intention ...

Hello Kay,

Thank you for explaining this. All of it is crystal clear.

Awareness is not being objectified or separated into components. I see awareness as the ground of everything: the whole bubble wrap, with nothing else as real. Some words might be synonymous (like "actual experience" or ...

Hello Kay,

Awareness shifts and experiences and yet it is happening in nothingness?! I don’t understand what that means!

I meant "nowhere" and instead said "nothingness." I was referring to location.

Please describe in detail what this “awareness” is and WHERE it is located

I wrote ...

Hello Kay,

So it is clear that there is no actual experience of a body; that the AE of body is colour + sensation + thought BUT there is no actual experience of a body?
And that there is no dividing line in AE between colour/sensation/thought?

Yes, very clear. No actual experience of a body ...

Hello Kay,

How exciting that there is actually more to check, to really check!

Can it be known how tall the body is?
Never!

Does the body have a weight or a volume?
None that can be sensed or measured through direct experience of the senses
Is there a boundary between the body and the ground ...

Oh, and the dreamer, in the dream, plays all the parts, even though the dreamer sometimes believes there are others in the dream that are not the dreamer. Still, all the people and things in the dream are the dreamer dreaming! It's exactly like that. Nothing more precise than that!!! Instead of ...

Hello Kay,

So you are clear that thoughts (ALL THOUGHTS) that appear are AE of thought and what the thoughts are ABOUT are fiction?

Yes, clear!


Does the label 'suffering' or story (thoughts) ABOUT suffering disappear?

I would say yes to your question above, but I don't recognize the ...