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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Thu Jul 23, 2026 2:08 am

Yay for staying dedicated! I'm still here, wanting to look. I'll work on ignoring thinking and just looking.

Thanks so much!
Jazzmina

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jul 23, 2026 12:21 pm

Jazzmina, I just love you.

Have you ever watched the hour and a half interview that Pernille did with her husband, Todd, on doubt?

I will put the link here and I will mention to you that I am the guide who worked with him for 9 months and finally handed him off to Vince where he finally realized He was seeing. I asked him why he didn't mention my name and he said he hadn't really thought about it.

https://youtu.be/trB0Fi6dpg0?si=U7_2cwc47-ryCiIh

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Wed Jul 29, 2026 3:12 am

Aww thank you for loving me. My stubborn mind just won't let me see yet. I will keep looking. I think I watched this interview before but I will watch it again soon.

Thanks so much! Love you for sticking with me here!

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Wed Jul 29, 2026 10:45 am

Of course!

You can do this. Tell your mind to take a break.


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"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Fri Jul 31, 2026 9:50 pm

Hi,

I've been listening to the Todd and Pernille interivew on doubt and it's making a lot of sense. I still have so much doubt and underlying doubt-filled beliefs. What is the best approach for this now?

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri Jul 31, 2026 11:04 pm

The Work of Byron Katie

www.thework.com

There is a free help line.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Sun Aug 02, 2026 4:14 pm

Aloha,

You mentioned Byron Katie The Work before and I tried it briefly. It did not resonate with me then. I am much more interested in Todd and Pernilla's approach with The Awakening Curriculum.

Did I mention to you that I am going to Angelo Dillulo's silent retreat this October in Boone, NC?

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Sun Aug 02, 2026 4:54 pm

Hi,

It doesn't really matter whether The Work resonates or not. I still think you should give it a few practice tries. Best with a facilitator. on the Helpline.

It is likely that it doesn't resonate because it questions all that thinking that you hold on to.

Todd & Pernille are good. Angelo is good.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Mon Aug 03, 2026 11:52 am

Hi, You are right- I cling to thought for dear life. I will find time to call the helpline.

Thanks!
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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon Aug 03, 2026 1:17 pm

Good! I think you will thank me.

I did several years of The Work with a weekly facilitated group before LU. It made it a lot easier. Same teacher as rhose DropBox recordings. (who has asked me not v to name him)

Let me know how it goes.

If you like to read, read Loving What Is and A Mind at Home With Itself.

Katie has been awake since 1986.

Loving
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Tue Aug 18, 2026 2:03 pm

FYI if you're interested.

Seeing Through The Self Illusion

20th of August
90 min long

4 pm London
5 pm Paris
8 am San Francisco
11 am New York

Link to all monthly Zoom Meetings

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9143364592?pw ... VEMHg2Zz09

Monthly group meetings are free. Just come.
If you would like to donate, I would appreciate it. You can do that through PayPal here.

With love,

Ilona
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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