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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Thu Jul 23, 2026 2:08 am

Yay for staying dedicated! I'm still here, wanting to look. I'll work on ignoring thinking and just looking.

Thanks so much!
Jazzmina

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jul 23, 2026 12:21 pm

Jazzmina, I just love you.

Have you ever watched the hour and a half interview that Pernille did with her husband, Todd, on doubt?

I will put the link here and I will mention to you that I am the guide who worked with him for 9 months and finally handed him off to Vince where he finally realized He was seeing. I asked him why he didn't mention my name and he said he hadn't really thought about it.

https://youtu.be/trB0Fi6dpg0?si=U7_2cwc47-ryCiIh

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Wed Jul 29, 2026 3:12 am

Aww thank you for loving me. My stubborn mind just won't let me see yet. I will keep looking. I think I watched this interview before but I will watch it again soon.

Thanks so much! Love you for sticking with me here!

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Wed Jul 29, 2026 10:45 am

Of course!

You can do this. Tell your mind to take a break.


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~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Fri Jul 31, 2026 9:50 pm

Hi,

I've been listening to the Todd and Pernille interivew on doubt and it's making a lot of sense. I still have so much doubt and underlying doubt-filled beliefs. What is the best approach for this now?

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri Jul 31, 2026 11:04 pm

The Work of Byron Katie

www.thework.com

There is a free help line.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Sun Aug 02, 2026 4:14 pm

Aloha,

You mentioned Byron Katie The Work before and I tried it briefly. It did not resonate with me then. I am much more interested in Todd and Pernilla's approach with The Awakening Curriculum.

Did I mention to you that I am going to Angelo Dillulo's silent retreat this October in Boone, NC?

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Sun Aug 02, 2026 4:54 pm

Hi,

It doesn't really matter whether The Work resonates or not. I still think you should give it a few practice tries. Best with a facilitator. on the Helpline.

It is likely that it doesn't resonate because it questions all that thinking that you hold on to.

Todd & Pernille are good. Angelo is good.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Mon Aug 03, 2026 11:52 am

Hi, You are right- I cling to thought for dear life. I will find time to call the helpline.

Thanks!
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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon Aug 03, 2026 1:17 pm

Good! I think you will thank me.

I did several years of The Work with a weekly facilitated group before LU. It made it a lot easier. Same teacher as rhose DropBox recordings. (who has asked me not v to name him)

Let me know how it goes.

If you like to read, read Loving What Is and A Mind at Home With Itself.

Katie has been awake since 1986.

Loving
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Tue Aug 18, 2026 2:03 pm

FYI if you're interested.

Seeing Through The Self Illusion

20th of August
90 min long

4 pm London
5 pm Paris
8 am San Francisco
11 am New York

Link to all monthly Zoom Meetings

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9143364592?pw ... VEMHg2Zz09

Monthly group meetings are free. Just come.
If you would like to donate, I would appreciate it. You can do that through PayPal here.

With love,

Ilona
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Sep 10, 2026 3:03 pm

How's it going?

Do you still want to be giided here?

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Wanderer618 » Fri Sep 18, 2026 8:26 pm

Hi, yes I am still here and want to be guided. I haven't had a chance to use The Work hotline and I have been in the process of moving and finding a new job.

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Sep 19, 2026 1:15 pm

Ah, that will keep you busy. I was wondering just yesterday how you're doing

You moved to a different island, right?

What kind of work do you do?

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Seeing There is No Real self

Postby Anastacia42 » Tue Sep 22, 2026 2:59 pm

From Ilona.

If you are sincerely looking to see through the illusion of a separate self, I want to let you know that I will soon be opening the third round of my 8-week **Seeing Through the Self Illusion** experience.

Over the years at Liberation Unleashed, I have seen again and again that understanding no-self intellectually is not the same as recognition. You can read the books, understand the pointers, listen to teachers and know all the right words, yet still feel that something hasn’t quite clicked.

This 8-week experience is a focused and structured container for doing the actual inquiry.

You will receive pointers, questions and exercises that direct you back to your own experience. The home inquiry is supported by weekly live Zoom meetings where I guide the group, answer questions, help you stay focused and keep bringing the investigation back from thinking about the answer to actually looking.

There is no belief system to adopt and no answer I can give you. You have to look for yourself.

Recognition can happen at any time, but consistency matters. Eight weeks gives us time to keep looking at the same fundamental question from different angles, and time for what is being recognised to deepen and stabilise.

Round 3 begins the week of **October 17**, with two groups at different times. Registration opens on **October 10**.

If you are ready to look, join my email list. Over the coming weeks I’ll be sharing reflections and guidance on self-inquiry, awakening and recognition, and everyone on the list will receive the invitation when registration opens.

Join the email list here: https://bit.ly/4xyCYD7

**Please note:** Seeing Through the Self Illusion is my own independent paid offering and is separate from Liberation Unleashed and its free guiding service.

With love.
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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