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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Wed Jul 22, 2026 4:52 pm

Hi Jacki,

Please check in every couple of days.

Have I offered you the IAM DropBox pointers? You might try those.

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/ksba3zhi9uuz ... hsk1a?dl=0

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~ Adyashanti

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Re: jacki

Postby Quincy » Thu Jul 30, 2026 3:43 pm

Hi Stacy,

I am so sorry! I have been meaning to check in!

You did share those with me. I will check in every couple of days.

I am having glimpses!


Love,
Jacki

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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jul 30, 2026 3:55 pm

Excellent!

I'm here if you need me but it sounds like you've got this covered All you need to do is practice & wait.

Loving
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Re: jacki

Postby Quincy » Thu Jul 30, 2026 10:51 pm

All you need to do is practice & wait.
I agree! I know this only happens "now" but there is still a tone of expectation. I am aware of it. I keep catching the thought of it. I just try to remain present as much as possible. I'm keeping it very simple at this point.

I was wondering, have you dissolved the perceptual filters, such as distance? Do you see objects as separate?

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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri Jul 31, 2026 12:04 am

You're doing well.
have you dissolved the perceptual filters, such as distance? Do you see objects as separate?
I don't live there, but I can see the reality of no subject /object if I look.

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Re: jacki

Postby Quincy » Fri Jul 31, 2026 1:42 am

Thank you for your support and sticking with me.

Love,
Jacki

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Re: jacki

Postby Quincy » Sat Aug 01, 2026 5:13 pm

Hi Stacy,

It's clear that it's already here. There's clarity but it comes and goes. Presence is growing. I can drop into it easily. I can see that it's obvious and there's really nothing you can say about it.

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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Aug 01, 2026 5:21 pm

Did I share the 2 videos explaining that it will come and go like that.?

it won't be 24/7. There's likely to.be a "honeymoon period," and then what we call, "got it, lost it," as untruebeliefs come up to be questioned.

Watch these, please:

https://youtu.be/vJQcD588g2w

and

https://youtu.be/PUDzrCLlrj4

We have some checkpoint questions Are you ready to answer those?


You can do more looking with a 10 Fetters group. We only guide the first 3

Loving,
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Postby Quincy » Sat Aug 01, 2026 5:55 pm

Did I share the 2 videos explaining that it will come and go like that.?
Yes, I have seen these videos and will watch them again.

It's so subtle I am not even sure if I have had a shift or just glimpses. I think they are just glimpses or foretastes. Lot's of beliefs are being questioned, that's for sure.

I can't even say I'm in the "got it, lost it" stage.
We have some checkpoint questions Are you ready to answer those?
I am not sure if I'm ready. I could probably answer them from a conceptual point of view, so there would be no point.
In terms of direct experience, I don't know. It doesn't seem deep enough. But maybe that's just a thought.

I will continue to look and practice.

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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Aug 01, 2026 5:57 pm

I suspect maybe you're trying to go past what we do here but I cannot tell.

We're watching for a shift in perception and yes it may be subtle

Loving,
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Re: jacki

Postby Quincy » Sat Aug 01, 2026 10:59 pm

I suspect maybe you're trying to go past what we do here but I cannot tell.
My practice is simple. I meditate. I dis-identify from thoughts and question beliefs. Trying to stay in the gap between thoughts. Trying to look and stay in direct experience.
We're watching for a shift in perception and yes it may be subtle
Can you say a little more what you mean by that? Thank you.

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Re: jacki

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Aug 01, 2026 11:18 pm

Can you say a little more what you mean by that? Thank you.
Read Gateless Gatecrashers for examples.

It can be slow & subtle or it can hit you like a ton of bricks.

From an email from Ilona

Nothing dramatic happened.

There were no fireworks.
No permanent bliss states.
No sudden personality changes.

And yet, something shifted.


Here are a few things people said afterwards:

“I’m not fighting my experience anymore. There’s more space around everything.”

“I expected something big to happen. Instead, life feels simpler and I trust myself more.”

“There’s less urgency. The seeking has softened.”


This is the kind of shift this work supports.

Ilona Cuinate

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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