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by Auren
Sat Oct 04, 2014 10:52 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hi Peter,
The same! Thank you for your time, attention and patience! :)
I'll keep checking the thread then

Hugs
by Auren
Thu Oct 02, 2014 9:33 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

It seems hard for you to translate direct experience into words, is that correct?
Yes. The easiest way seems to find some kind of metaphor, like the bubble or the spiral.
See the difference with the above?
Yes. I wasn’t sure what was expected so I wrote what came to mind. I have many ‘I don’t ...
by Auren
Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:33 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

What could you do to prepare yourself to just be and answer from that place of not knowing?
Well nothing really, can I? :)
Can you give examples of those “layers” that have disappeared?
I don’t know if layers expresses it with accuracy, maybe as an spiral moving; as time went by I kept stumbling ...
by Auren
Wed Oct 01, 2014 9:59 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hi Peter,

I am doing my best, but still feel that I am not prepared to answer your questions. I have tried, this is the result of the first three:

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all’, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?
No, there isn’t, in any way, shape or ...
by Auren
Wed Oct 01, 2014 10:01 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hi Peter,

Thank you, I will come back to you as soon as possible with the answers as I have a lot of work today
by Auren
Tue Sep 30, 2014 5:06 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Haha No and No -But I guess you can be oblivious to the moment and 'hallucinate' you have control over the outcome of things :)
by Auren
Tue Sep 30, 2014 10:16 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Maybe this "I"-feeling will come back very often, maybe it will become less. Nobody or nothing is controlling that.
Can you see that is true?
Yes, it comes by itself, as I said mostly when thoughts arise that ‘touch’ it. But it makes all the difference to know that it’s a feeling with a label, and ...
by Auren
Mon Sep 29, 2014 9:27 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hej Peter

I have been travelling today. I read some of the quotes of the app the night before, also the ones about language and labelling. As I watched the trees go by through the window I had a direct experience with watching. There was only watching. The "I", also the "I" feeling I had, was not ...
by Auren
Sun Sep 28, 2014 1:58 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

The same applies for feelings.
Acknowledged, thank you.
You may do this exercise:
Close your eyes and find that feeling that is always here — the being, amness, aliveness - or as you call it: the "I"-feeling.
Notice how thoughts come up after (and before) labelling it "I'.
So this feeling of ...
by Auren
Sat Sep 27, 2014 4:28 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

You cannot find one, but is there one somewhere?
In your own experience, is there one?

There must still be an “I”, since I don’t feel its non-existence as yet. You ask ,in my own experience. That for me means when I look, no, I can’t find anything, but that doesn’t seem to change the fact that I ...
by Auren
Fri Sep 26, 2014 4:26 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?
I can’t find any. What I had is practically gone by now.

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. Describe it ...
by Auren
Fri Sep 26, 2014 10:45 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

And with that my questions to you are at an end for now.
Is there still something you want to look into together?
Thank you for your effort and help. I don’t have any questions no :)
If so, is there someone or something responsible?
Responsible for the thoughts, the choosing, the doing? If there ...
by Auren
Wed Sep 24, 2014 5:09 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hi Peter,
I'll copy/paste your mail and look into the questions later (I'm at a café ;)

Yes of course, I'll be happy to answer any other quesions :)
by Auren
Tue Sep 23, 2014 9:30 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Hey, just wanted to tell you that I'll be travelling tomorrow and don't know when I'll have wifi available, I'm counting on a day or two, I'll be back as soon as possible :) Thank you Peter :)
by Auren
Tue Sep 23, 2014 12:37 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: I want to be an even better hostess
Replies: 49
Views: 9107

Re: I want to be an even better hostess

Your answers are going shorter and shorter.
I wonder why. Can you tell me?

It’s getting simpler and I have less to say! :)

Can you distinguish clearly a perceiver and what is perceived ?

No

Does the body have a shape ?

No, only the image of the body appears in my mind

Can you ...

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