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Re: Back for guidance

Postby AwayKen127 » Thu Jun 29, 2023 6:06 am

To put an even finer point on it: "Same" is a category created by thought. There is no "same" or "different" in actual experience. Look for sameness right here, right now, without thinking. What do you SEE? Then, can you notice as the thought "same" arises? What does the thought sound and feel like in actual experience?
SEE that it is impossible for a thought to refer to anything other than a thought.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Thu Jun 29, 2023 11:18 pm

Hi Jeff thanks for guidance, it can get frustrating but I will continue to disect! Nothing to report from looking yesterday.
There is no "same" or "different" in actual experience. Look for sameness right here, right now, without thinking. What do you SEE? Then, can you notice as the thought "same" arises? What does the thought sound and feel like in actual experience?
I will do this exercise today and report back.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Fri Jun 30, 2023 11:08 pm

Look for sameness right here, right now, without thinking. What do you SEE?
I can't find sameness anywhere prior to thought
Then, can you notice as the thought "same" arises? What does the thought sound and feel like in actual experience?
This one is tricky and I will stick with it another day. It's hard to notice the thought when it arises. There seems to be at least a verbal thought of same / similar, but I can't notice anything clearly to give a description of sound and feeling.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Sun Jul 02, 2023 12:01 am

Still struggling with noticing how the thought feels and sounds. It's hard to notice the thought clearly, at times it seems like there's a vocal thought of same and at other times a visual though. Not sure how to describe what that feels like.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby AwayKen127 » Sun Jul 02, 2023 1:12 am

Not sure how to describe what that feels like.
Sorry, I was unclear. The thought "same" will sound like the spoken word. Also, there will be an accompanying sensation in the body together with another thought that claims that the sensation validates or invalidates the first thought: "I feel relaxation/expansion, therefore the thought is true." Or, "I feel tension/contraction, therefore the thought is false."

These sensations plus thoughts ("feelings") also seem to tell you what is real and what is unreal. Of course, they can't and don't.
SEE that it is impossible for a thought to refer to anything other than a thought.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Sun Jul 02, 2023 10:05 pm

The thought "same" will sound like the spoken word. Also, there will be an accompanying sensation in the body together with another thought that claims that the sensation validates or invalidates the first thought
Thank you I understand now, I do notice the first thought but have been trying to notice the sensation, will stick with that another day and report back.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Mon Jul 03, 2023 11:20 pm

Also, there will be an accompanying sensation in the body together with another thought that claims that the sensation validates or invalidates the first thought
Still having trouble noticing this. I've been noticing some sensations just not any thought that follows as yet. It happens very quick. Will continue to look.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 10:20 pm

Have been noticing the "same" thought occuring more often, it happens frequently throughout the day. Still having trouble seeing the sensation and follow up thought but will keep looking.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Wed Jul 05, 2023 11:14 pm

Still not seeing the sensation and thought that follows but didnt get as much time yesterday to look.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby AwayKen127 » Thu Jul 06, 2023 5:14 am

Do you feel stuck in a rut, Jerry, or is this line of inquiry productive? We could look at other things if you like.
Jeff
SEE that it is impossible for a thought to refer to anything other than a thought.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Thu Jul 06, 2023 11:06 pm

Thanks Jeff, I feel a little stuck but I'll give it another day and see how I go!

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Fri Jul 07, 2023 11:49 pm

Can we move onto looking at other things, thanks Jeff!

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby AwayKen127 » Sat Jul 08, 2023 8:21 am

Hi Jerry,
I haven't forgotten about you--I'm just seeing if any inspiration comes for a new inquiry direction. I'll have something for you soon.
Jeff
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Re: Back for guidance

Postby Russ84 » Sat Jul 08, 2023 11:02 pm

No worries Jeff I'll continue to look at the same thought throughout the day and during meditation keep focus on the breath and at the thought of being in control.

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Re: Back for guidance

Postby AwayKen127 » Sun Jul 09, 2023 5:19 am

Hi Jerry,
Here's an exercise. Let's look at your answers and go from there.

Label-Reality Correlation

There is a belief that labels have a one-to-one correspondence with ‘reality’. But there isn’t.  Just like it is a generally accepted belief that labels like ‘good’ and ‘bad’ are inherent characteristics of ‘things’. But actually, they are not.

When you look at the word label ‘GREEN’, what is the actual experience?

Is the colour red ‘experienced’, or is the colour green ‘experienced’ as the label suggests?

Does the label ‘GREEN’ have a one-to-one correspondence with ‘reality’? Or does the label suggest something else other than what is here now (red colour)?

Is 'green' associated in any way with the experience of the colour red; or is green just a label that overlays the actual experience of red?

If the label ‘GREEN’ is replaced with the label ‘GOOD’ or ‘BAD’, is the redness affected in any way as the labels suggests?

Does redness become ‘good’ or ‘bad’, or  do the labels have no affect whatsoever on ‘reality’?
SEE that it is impossible for a thought to refer to anything other than a thought.


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