Yeah, I understand. Its hard to speak about these concepts without using "I" or "me" and the like. :-) "i" (this body with a brain that is just churning out thoughts centered on its self, which has no basis in reality) is standing here. Then there is another "person" (same as the "i" mentioned previously) is standing there. The thoughts that body and mind are making has very little if anything to do with this body and brain. "They" are seeing everything through their particular lenses, (so is this body and brain) So there is little to no connection usually. yeah its difficult to talk about but that is the best that I can do at the moment.What is "another" in direct experience?
If there is no self here what makes a self there, with a responsibility? Where is the interpretation / story of "how they feel" - "here" or "there"?
Thanks again