There is no one in control.

[Bluejay]

Thank you for your answers!

I'll now share them with other guides to see if anyone has any feedback, or anything we've missed.

I'll be back soon, usually within a day or two (at most).

[Bluejay]

No one had any questions. You will contacted by an admin that will invite you to the FB group.

In the future, if you have any questions, you can always reach out to me. You can contact me via my profile here on LU. There are text links to send me a PM or email.

Here are some helpful resources:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cj3-Nn2nXL8 - What's Next? - A video from Ilona.

https://www.simplytheseen.com/explore-each-fetter.html - Great resource if you want to explore the next layer of selfing. In your case it would be fetters 4 & 5.

https://perfectlyokay.org/ - A free community that has an excellent 10 fetters group that meets up almost every week. They also have recordings from previous meetings that are excellent. Instructions on how to join are on the homepage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3X_Xpd10pV0 - A great video from Angelo Dilullo on this process and how it deepens on its own, if not resisted.

https://www.youtube.com/@TheAwakeningCurriculum/videos - Excellent channel from Pernille. Check out the playlists. These are great to watch here and there to help you see if anything else needs to be inquired into.

you keep looking at the self illusion as it will often deepen, but now it's just happening.
Would you mind explaining a little bit more about this?

What I meant was that it's fruitful to keep looking at where there are still conditioning/selfing, and it begins to seep into everyday life, so that the seeing becomes a larger and larger percentage of everyday living.

But now after the shift, it doesn't feel like this process is done by someone. It is just happening.

Does that make sense?

[so40]

But now after the shift, it doesn't feel like this process is done by someone. It is just happening.
Does that make sense?

Yes, it makes sense, there is an impersonal nature to thoughts and more attention to what is happening. Thoughts arise, but they mostly stay in the background. One interesting thing is a sudden stop to reading and watching nonduality talks!! I know there is work to be done, and Angelo's video explained this in detail. Thank you, Henri, for your guidance.
With much gratitude, S

[Bluejay]

Yes, it makes sense, there is an impersonal nature to thoughts and more attention to what is happening. Thoughts arise, but they mostly stay in the background. One interesting thing is a sudden stop to reading and watching nonduality talks!! I know there is work to be done, and Angelo's video explained this in detail. Thank you, Henri, for your guidance.
With much gratitude, S

Absolutely. The seeking tends to stop.

It was a pleasure talking to you.

Relax and enjoy! :)