Want to see that there's nobody writing this...

[Miro]

Your replies are excellent.
Do you have any questions at this point?

Thank you. Everything is clear "here".

I'll send you PM with some other questions after we finish this process. I have some questions related to a life after "no self" realisation.

Is there any confusion anywhere?

After 29 years full of "self" confusion... Everything's now clear!

Do you think you have realised that there is no real 'self'?

There was no real self. There is no real self. There will never be real self. Realisation happened.

And . . . at the same time . . . realised that there is no real 'self' to realise anything anyway?

Realisation happened... to no one :) .. But...:

Why is there a halo above my head and people bowing down to me when walking on the street? Just kidding :-D ...

I had no free will writing that :)

[Xain]

Why is there a halo above my head and people bowing down to me when walking on the street?

Wha . . . ? You mean, it's happening to you too?!?
(I'm kidding also) ;-)

If you are confident, then there are a further six questions I can ask as part of this process.
Ready for them?

Xain ♥

[Miro]

I'm ready.

[Xain]

Ok, Miro, here are the first three of the six:

1) Is there a 'real' separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience and understanding. Describe it fully as you see it now.

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference (if anything) from before you started this guidance with me?
Please report from the past few days.

Xain ♥

[Miro]

1) Is there a 'real' separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

There is not and never was any real separate entity self, me, I. There never was. Separate entity existed only in thoughts.

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience and understanding. Describe it fully as you see it now.

Illusion of separate self is based on thoughts about being separated from the life.
Illusion of separate self means that there is "something separate" experiencing "Life".
Someone may think there is "a manager" behind the eyes or anywhere else, who is controlling things and to who things are happening.

Separate self is an assumption that started probably few years after the birth.
From my experience there were many causes responsible for separation: language, environment, verbal and non-verbal communication, identification in society..

All my life I was looking through "self" glasses. I was experiencing a life as a separate entity. Now, "I" is nowhere... There is just this.. LIFE.... Separation is an illusion, a thought, an idea, a concept...
There is just life where everything is happening. Things in life aren't connected in any way...

There is just life happening and we had to create many concepts to describe it.. We constantly try to figure out the life, but all we are doing is just creating more concepts and labels... Life just IS.

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference (if anything) from before you started this guidance with me?
Please report from the past few days.

Well.. A few realisations :

There is no one to suffer.
There is no one doing anything.
There is no one responsible for anything.
There is a life happening and there are thoughts about it.
Just THOUGHTS.
There is just a life doing its thing.
Everything is perfect.
Life shouldn't be any different. It's perfect.
Everything is as it should be.

Yesterday I went for a walk... It rained.... The walk was beautiful.... I was observing "myself".... Every tree, birds, rain drops, wind, people... Everything in me is beautiful.... Every part of me is perfect....... Life

[Xain]

Thanks for your answers, Miro.

Here are the last three of the six questions:

4) Was there something you looked into or something I may have mentioned that made you fully realise - Was there a moment where you 'tipped over' into realising 'no self'?

5) Describe decision, intention, free will, choice and control as you understand it now. What makes things happen? How does it work? What are you responsible for? Please give examples from experience if you can.

6) Do you have anything further you would like to add?

Xain ♥

[Miro]

4) Was there something you looked into or something I may have mentioned that made you fully realise - Was there a moment where you 'tipped over' into realising 'no self'?

Yes. This realisations really hepled me:

Xain is it possible that the shift has already happened?
How can I find something that only exists in thoughts? "I" only exists in thoughts. It's not possible to find it elsewhere.
And if there was some "I", how could it control anything when there's no free will?

I think it was easy to realise NO SELF thanks to NO FREE WILL.

Anyway... No free will is a lot easier to realise than NO SELF... If I had to guide someone in the future, I think it's good to tell him/her about no free will first...

But... Your every sentence have helped me to realisation of NO SELF. You knew exactly where to point.... Thank you once again!

5) Describe decision, intention, free will, choice and control as you understand it now. What makes things happen? How does it work? What are you responsible for? Please give examples from experience if you can.

Decisions are made... By no one / nothing. Life is doing its thing.

Intentions.... No one / no thing intents to do anything. It is just happening. Every theory that I come up with is just a thought, an idea....

Free will.. There is only one will... Life's will.. No one / no thing has a free will.

choice... Choices are happening as a part of life... No one is doing them & no choices are being made.

control... No one / no thing controls anything...

Basically decision, intention, free will, choice and control.... are just concepts, ideas...

What makes things happen? LIFE. Even that answer is just a concept/thought! :)

How does it work? No one knows... And there is "no one" to know... Anything I write is just a concept...

What are you responsible for? There is nobody responsible for anything.

Please give examples from experience if you can. Breathing is happening... Typing is happening. Seeing is happening... Words just appear... There is a taste of coffee. There is a screen and a text.... A screen doesn't own text... No one sees this, no one experiences this... there is no one to experience anything.. Experience is just happening... Life is experiencing itself...

6) Do you have anything further you would like to add?

There is no one to add anything :).

Everything about NO SELF / NO SEPARATE is clear to me.

[Xain]

Hi Miro

Ok, thanks for your replies.
The other guides have looked through our conversation and are happy that you have realised also.
This guidance is now at an end.

If you have a Facebook account and wish to be added to our groups there for 'aftercare', 'further looking' and other things, please send me your Facebook name and/or page link, and I'll get you added to them (click the red name 'Xain' top right, and select 'Send private message'.

All the very best
Xain ♥