Hi John,

Sorry about delay, having a rough time with the weather.

Anyway, have looked at the private messages and there are no new messages, last one was in December. Nothing recent. Can you help with this?

KR
Julia

Hi John,

Thanks for the info. Will get back to you.

Warm regards,
Julia

Hi John,

Thank you for this experience. An amazing ride. There are lots of questions. How do I access this private message? Where is it?

Warm regards,
Julia

Hi John,

Looking at question five, first thoughts are stop, look and breathe. Here are some everyday happenings being described simply:

Gently becoming more aware of, and connecting with immediate surroundings. Looking at a pen being held between fingers and thumb and observing how this message ...

Hi John,

Will get back to you tomorrow. Hope okay.

KR
Julia

Hi John,

Thanks for your message. Enjoyed reading it.

Remember when you focused on direct experience. Just looking...with all the senses...at what was presented. Do that for this exercise. Look...with whatever senses are relevant...at everyday happenings...what is going on now. Notice and report ...

Hi Julia,
Hi John,

Thank you for your good description of direct experience. That is the right approach, so let's hone in there. I know we have had this conversation about lovely experiences come and go...and they almost certainly will. Not-so-lovely experiences will come and go, as well, in all ...

Hi John,

No time today. Will get back tomorrow.

KR
Julia

John,

Fine. Whenever it's convenient for you.

Thank you so much.

Julia

Hi John,

Actually, we are just looking for "plain talk" and we don't want it to be cerebral. Describing arms moving, fingers typing, a hand swinging a hammer, feet walking down the grocery aisle, produce being put in a shopping cart or shopping basket...descriptions like that do not have to be ...

Hi John,

"Is there a doer; is there a chooser?" I think you already know that the truth is obvious. Let it be obvious. Let it emerge from your direct experience.

Am looking for this decider, intender, chooser, controller of events in life. I can see there is no such thing as a controller, it is ...

Hi John,

Thanks for the feedback. Am not sure what is going on with Q5? Feelings of going backwards, not forwards?

I have some more feedback. I hope this clarifies. You say that life unfolds. Can you please give us some examples of you unfolding as life? What can you see - at this moment - that ...

Hi John,

Okay, am not explaining Q5 that well. Oh dear!

Couldn't get to the computer yesterday. Sorry about that, but it's a great example to try answering Q5. Tried to reply to your last message, but other things came up to stop this happening, all day. Whenever a time slot appeared, something ...

Hi John,

Have time to give this the time needed.

Q5: Do you decide, intend, choose, control events in life?

It's so easy to assume that "I" am in control of something like driving a car, until you ask the question, and don't just assume that there is a "you" there. Just lOOking allowed seeing ...

Hi John,

Will get back tomorrow.

KR
Julia