Hi Filip,
Thanks for the Christmas wishes. Yes, we do celebrate it, although I prefer Solstice, these days. Christmas is so commercial.

I'm suggesting that the root is strongly nicked, but perhaps not solidly slashed through.
Best wishes and love to you and yours as well,
Skye

Hi Filip,
You are going deeper; this is good. Let's continue with this. Relapses continue when the seeing isn't yet stable.
Your experience of love is just that--nice, of course, but an experience not to hang on to. Anything that comes and goes is not what you have been looking for. There can be a ...

Thanks, Filip,
Yes, I have had that experience as well.
with love,
Skye

Hi Filip,
this question has come up about something you said:
"It is a thought about how the experience has been unfolding."

Can you explain exactly what you mean by that, please?

with love,
Skye

Hi Filip,
Not getting responses from the elders. Probably because it is the holidays.

But they want to feel you are certain about seeing through the separate self. Is it clear that the "I" is an illusion?
with love,
Skye

sorry, got caught up in the holidays. Sent your response on to the others. Let me get back to you!
with love,
Skye

Filip,
There are more questions, perhaps stemming from an uncertainty that you communicate in your answers:

on Q4: "I see that all my life was kind of scripted for this to happen."
Is this real or a thought?

"There are just images, thoughts, concepts. But they are very untested."
Untested? What ...

You will be hearing from me in a bit--may be slow do to the holidays.
with love,
Skye

I think that is fine, Filip.
Final question (and then all will be reviewed by those more experienced than I)
6) Anything to add?

with love, and Happy Thanksgiving if you celebrate it tomorrow...
Skye

I'll contemplate your question.

When I said I wanted more specific examples, it was for verifying question #5:
5) Do you decide, intend, choose, control events in life? Do you make anything happen? Give examples from your experience.

Thanks and with love,
Skye

Over time, unwinding does occur. It may be very, very gradual (common), or sudden (rare, and often written about). For me, it has been very, very gradual.

Could you please give specific examples on the last question, please?

with love,
Skye

Hi Filip,
It was that gentle for me as well. Just an "oh, really?"

Here's the next question:
5) Do you decide, intend, choose, control events in life? Do you make anything happen? Give examples from your experience.

with love,
Skye

Thanks. Next question:

4) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

with love,
Skye

Filip,
This was a clear answer to question two, thank you.

As to the sentence you didn't understand:
If that sense of a separate self seems to reappear, it is so easy to just look and see--is it truly substantial, or just a figment of thoughts and feelings? Is that clearer?

3) How does it feel to ...

Hi Filip,
yes, I understand what you say about spaciousness, because as soon as it is named, it becomes "something."

The only part of what you said I want to point to is:
to sum up- knowing that there is no self seems to be available at all times now (but it may pass, who knows?)

I'd like to ...