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by Nitimak
Sat Jan 03, 2026 6:56 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Yes, it is just a thought 😊

With gratitude
by Nitimak
Thu Jan 01, 2026 7:15 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Good morning and happy new year dear Becca,
there a ‘you’ who is in control of thinking about it in the mind?

No, there isn't but looks like I still havent seen this clearly yet.

Notice “will try” is back in the same loop of future. This whole seeing can only happen now. Freedom can only be ...
by Nitimak
Wed Dec 31, 2025 2:15 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

it ever more than a thought-story + sensation + belief it “means something about me”?

No, its just a story.

[ quote]this moment, can you actually find suffering, without a story? Can you find suffering apart from the expectation that something should be different?

Actually no, no suffering ...
by Nitimak
Tue Dec 30, 2025 2:37 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Good morning,

[What will be different when you realize there’s no separate self?]
It will be end of the suffering, not the pain but the mental suffering which comes with identification with separate self.

[What do you expect to happen as a result of this?]

Life will be much more enjoyable and ...
by Nitimak
Tue Dec 30, 2025 12:19 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Honestly speaking,

Dont know. Still looking...

Best,
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 19, 2025 3:01 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Sure, thanks a lot.

With Gratitude
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 19, 2025 2:48 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Understood, thanks
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 19, 2025 2:41 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Experiancially,

It feels lighter

Do you think, its about keep remembering that there is no me if I feeling comes strong ?

Thank you
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 19, 2025 2:35 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

There is just feeling of "being" without I
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 19, 2025 2:34 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Hi,

No, I cant find the "I" even if it appears to be so.

Warm regards
by Nitimak
Sat Dec 13, 2025 5:03 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

I know the answer intellectually that its not "me" as it comes and goes.

Will look into my direct experience by keeping mind aside and will get back to you.

Thanks a lot
by Nitimak
Fri Dec 12, 2025 4:10 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Hi Becca,

I repeated it several times and everytime I felt a slight contraction in the chest. No thoughts.

Thank you
by Nitimak
Thu Dec 11, 2025 4:25 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Thank you Becca,

Will get back to you after repeating it few times during the day.

Warm wishes
by Nitimak
Thu Dec 11, 2025 2:19 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Thank you for checking in!

I still feel stuck! I do see there is just "being" but it still feels intellectual understanding. Sorry, it feels like that I am not getting it 😔
by Nitimak
Sat Oct 18, 2025 5:47 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeker
Replies: 103
Views: 3607

Re: Seeker

Good morning Becca,

Feeling a bit stuck here. Not sure how to proceed.

Warm regards,

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