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by DrWilko
Mon Jun 24, 2019 10:59 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Lisa,

By all means carry on looking, butI am going to suggest we find another guide for you.

Our conversation has become stuck in a loop where the words appear to change, but it is much the same as I paraphrased earlier. Whether the word is belief, or "seems", or invisible thread, we have moved ...
by DrWilko
Mon Jun 24, 2019 3:38 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

...to commentate as it will...
by DrWilko
Mon Jun 24, 2019 3:37 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,

So a belief is a thought that feels different. How? Be specific about what feels different and where.

You say it has more weight. Where is this weight experienced? Or if you are only speaking figuratively, can you simply see that there is just more thought being "added" to thought ...
by DrWilko
Thu Jun 20, 2019 2:44 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

CORRECTION:

Tell me once again, is thought the author of experience?

Next question: Is there an independent, separate author of thought or, does thought just happen?

I'm going to assume for the moment that the answer to the first question is yes.

Last sentence should read:

I'm going to ...
by DrWilko
Thu Jun 20, 2019 2:41 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,

A few additional thoughts for you. In fact, I recommend dropping whatever "looking" you are doing at the moment to answer the questions in this post, and to do the exercise at the end.

Part One:

Tell me once again, is thought the author of experience?

Next question: Is there an ...
by DrWilko
Tue Jun 18, 2019 10:02 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,
Good to hear back from you.

But who or what is it that sees this question, then stops to actually "look"?
Is there looking happening, or simply experience, and after a thought saying that looking happened, therefore there must be a looker (it's implied by the language itself)? You can ...
by DrWilko
Fri Jun 14, 2019 12:24 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,
Good to hear from you. Read away whatever helps. This is a public forum - maybe there is some question we haven't asked, some area we have not looked at.
One thing to consider - what happens if you stop looking?

What is there when you simply stop?

Is there someone who is looking, or ...
by DrWilko
Tue Jun 11, 2019 12:32 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,

Good to hear you are continuing to work through this.

I have also been looking through the thread.

Let me know when you are ready to continue.

All good wishes,

Dave
by DrWilko
Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:33 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Take as long as you need Lisa. Just keep me updated. Thank you!
by DrWilko
Mon Jun 03, 2019 11:21 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,

Thank you for your responses.

Are you saying that if I have an expectation of fireworks where everything changes, then that would prevent me from realizing that I've seen through the illusion?

Just that whatever it is you are expecting, be prepared for it not necessarily being that way ...
by DrWilko
Sun Jun 02, 2019 10:42 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Dear Lisa,

Sorry that life has been chaotic for you and that this has coincided with this investigation... Maybe this is making things more difficult than they might otherwise be.

Anyway:
This is where I think we are at right now.

Firstly it is clear that when we began this process that there ...
by DrWilko
Thu May 30, 2019 8:56 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,

Before I address your replies, it seems important here to address expectations once more.

You have suggested before that you don't expect anything to change necessarily, just that "it will no longer be believed" - as in the notion of a self.

Can I ask - do you believe in self? Please ...
by DrWilko
Tue May 28, 2019 8:07 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

....also - make sure the questions are read carefully. We are now no longer looking for the thread. We cannot find it, it is invisible. The questions are about what leads you to conclude it is there....
by DrWilko
Tue May 28, 2019 7:57 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Ok - great. There is no rush for answers - as I said, take as long as you need.

All I'm asking is that you send even a short post letting me know you are still pursuing the investigation. I don't guide that many people, so if I don't hear from you at all I wonder whether to wait, or to make ...
by DrWilko
Mon May 27, 2019 9:24 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: SelfingStrong
Replies: 247
Views: 46090

Re: SelfingStrong

Hi Lisa,
Can you please let me know if you are still pursuing this investigation at least every couple of days?
How is it all going?
D x

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