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- Mon Apr 13, 2026 2:29 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Silent echo
- Replies: 18
- Views: 840
Re: Silent echo
Oh, good. So, let's move on. Pay attention to how it FEELS to LOOK. Label-Reality Correlation There is a belief that labels have a one-to-one correspondence with ‘reality’. But there isn’t. Just like it is a generally accepted belief that labels like ‘good’ and ‘bad’ are inherent characteristics of ...
- Mon Apr 13, 2026 12:05 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Tired of searching and not finding :(
- Replies: 18
- Views: 485
Re: Tired of searching and not finding :(
Mostly good.
Loving,
Changes the experience or changes the *thought* ?The thought has no affect on the actual color, but changes the simple experience of seeing the color red. If it was a red blob, it would be a more direct exerience for me.
Loving,
- Sun Apr 12, 2026 2:56 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Tired of searching and not finding :(
- Replies: 18
- Views: 485
Re: Tired of searching and not finding :(
Good. 1. Correct 2. Direct Experience is here. Your list has a couple of those. 3. No. That's affecting only your thinking. I'll give you a pointer to show this. 4. Close. There's a truth/lie pointer I'll share shortly. Label-Reality Correlation There is a belief that labels have a one-to-one corres...
Re: To see
Sorry. I doorbell mean ton past both of those.
But go ahead, if you like. I'll give you Palm Flipping when you've done this.
Loving,
But go ahead, if you like. I'll give you Palm Flipping when you've done this.
Loving,
- Sat Apr 11, 2026 7:55 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Tired of searching and not finding :(
- Replies: 18
- Views: 485
Re: Tired of searching and not finding :(
Yes, that's correct. I don't need you to quote that much of the instructions. Just enough that i can see what you're respond8ng to. Next step: Mind Labeling Experience Here is an exercise which examines the way in which the mind labels experience - it takes about 20 minutes and you will need a pen a...
- Sat Apr 11, 2026 7:25 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: The truth of life
- Replies: 50
- Views: 1864
Re: The truth of life
Hi Kyle,
Yes, "I" is a lie feeling of contraction plus thought.
That feeling of expansion & peace when you find no "I " is the truth feeling. When that takes over, there's the shift in perception..
Keep posting how it's going.
Loving
Yes, "I" is a lie feeling of contraction plus thought.
That feeling of expansion & peace when you find no "I " is the truth feeling. When that takes over, there's the shift in perception..
Keep posting how it's going.
Loving
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 8:03 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Is this the first fetter?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 355
Re: Is this the first fetter?
Excellent. Direct Experience - Labeling Daily Activities Here's an exercise that I would like you to try as many times throughout the day as you can. Label daily activities simply color/image, sound, smell, taste, sensation, thought. So for example, when having breakfast, become aware of: Seeing a c...
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 1:46 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Tired of searching and not finding :(
- Replies: 18
- Views: 485
Re: Tired of searching and not finding :(
Sounds good.
Loving,
Loving,
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 11:30 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Is this the first fetter?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 355
Re: Is this the first fetter?
Hi Sol, That's partly what we're here to clezr up, although The Work of Byron Katie is better for a pacific stories like you listed. www.thework.com This is how to LOOK for no self in the exercises - we call them "pointers' - that we will be doing here: Colored Socks There is a big difference betwee...
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 1:06 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Is this the first fetter?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 355
Re: Is this the first fetter?
Hi Sol,
All of those things will still require work but this will help some. This is just a beginning.
Now what comes up when reading that there is no separate self, never has been, and never will be? That the whole thing was a made up story that we believed.
Lovng
All of those things will still require work but this will help some. This is just a beginning.
Now what comes up when reading that there is no separate self, never has been, and never will be? That the whole thing was a made up story that we believed.
Lovng
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 1:03 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: I need help. My sense of self is falling apart. Who am I?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 182
Re: I need help. My sense of self is falling apart. Who am I?
Yes, yes. Get well & reply when you can.
Loving
Loving
Re: To see
Yes, good. Let's bring this together some. Actual/Direct Experience - Apple Have a look at an apple (or any fruit you like.) If you have a ‘real’ apple, you can use it for this exercise. Google for a picture of an apple. https://sanaakosirickylee.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/apple-benefits.jpg When l...
- Fri Apr 10, 2026 12:59 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Tired of searching and not finding :(
- Replies: 18
- Views: 485
Re: Tired of searching and not finding :(
Hi Ellen,
You can do both. It's just good to keep momentum going.
Up to you.
Loving,
You can do both. It's just good to keep momentum going.
Up to you.
Loving,
Re: To see
Hi Pri, involuntary pulling in of the navel/diaphragm area. Apart from that, couldn't feel much. That's good enough. I just want you to recognize the difference between truth & lie. Label-Reality Correlation There is a belief that labels have a one-to-one correspondence with ‘reality’. But there isn...
- Thu Apr 09, 2026 4:37 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Seeing There is No Real self
- Replies: 334
- Views: 22279
Re: Seeing There is No Real self
I think there are 3 of them. Your choice or all of them.
Loving
Loving

