Here are the other questions. Just go with the gut response answers-
Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. The illusion of a separate self is when we believe the concepts and conditioning that we have been told by ...
Was there any bodily reaction to the ideas of 'my mother' or 'my daughter', aprt from words and images 'stories' about them? Yes, sensations in chest area. The relationship between sensations and ideas/ emotions can be further explored as needed, it's just I wanted to make sure that dynamic was ...
Maybe try that one again and ask her 'who/what are you talking to?' ;) Ha!
You might be interested in Gary Webber's experience. This is not to set up in any way that these voice in the head thoughts need to disappear, however his experience is they are pretty much totally unnecessary.
Sometimes it feels like the sensations in the head and sometimes other body parts contain "me" Describe this me that is contained within the body. is there just sensation? Or is there a me there? If so, describe that me in detail and how it is known. It is so hard to describe, probably because ...
Is there any actual evidence outside of a thought saying so that that tightness sensation is 'coming from a brain'? If so describe what about the sensation itself says anything about a brain?
No there is no evidence.
Yes, there still feels like something separate is experiencing these thoughts ...
Ok so keep checking these. Are there any sensations, particularly around the head/face area creating the impression that seeing is coming from the eyes? No there are not.
Go through the nature of thought in more detail again:
Is there anything making thoughts appear? Sometimes ...
Now i'd like you to go through all the major senses in turn the same way. actually take a look when that sense is fully operating (like taste when eating a meal)
I want you to get out some photos of you at different ages from babyhood to recent, and also have a mirror handy. I want you to look carefully at the different photos and the image in the mirror. Where is the 'you' in any of those images? -There are only ...
What is the possibility that when not actively 'looking' that a self appears and then disappears when looking? Like some sort of game of hide and seek?
That possibility sounds pretty silly :)
If not, and it's 100% clear everytime looking happens that no entity ...