4) Was there something you looked into or something I may have mentioned that made you fully realise - Was there a moment where you 'tipped over' into realising 'no self'?

Yes. This realisations really hepled me:

Xain is it possible that the shift has already happened?
How can I find something ...

1) Is there a 'real' separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

There is not and never was any real separate entity self, me, I. There never was. Separate entity existed only in thoughts.

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self ...

I'm ready.

Your replies are excellent.
Do you have any questions at this point?

Thank you. Everything is clear "here".

I'll send you PM with some other questions after we finish this process. I have some questions related to a life after "no self" realisation.

Is there any confusion anywhere?

After 29 ...

We're going so deep! But that is actually great.

There is a hand swaying left to right... Nobody chose which hand to sway

Wouldn't 'Nobody chose' also be a thought / an idea about what was going on?
Can you establish anything more than 'an arm moved' at this point?

There is just a hand moving ...

Move your arm about for a moment. Sway it left and right.
Is the body . . . or ANYTHING responsible for that action?

I think there is only one correct answer to that... Causes and effects are doing that... Nobody controls them...

Is this something you found when you swung your arm about? That ...

Let's go over the senses - Seeing, hearing, feelings, smell and taste.
Just sit there for a moment and examine them.

Nobody chose to see, hear, feel, smell, taste in the first place... Nobody chose to see when "he" was born... Nobody chose his senses... It just happened automatically. Everything ...

Good - So would it be fair to say that 'Mind' is a label for the stream of thoughts and imagined images?
So 'Mind' is only a label. It is an 'assumed' container, but this container we cannot locate.
It's not something that has 'real existence'. It's just an idea to help us understand what's going ...

Perhaps there is no other way.
But just to recognise that the 'separated way' is not inherently true or 'real' . . . and that it not a problem :)

Ok, so are there any more recognitions to realise? There is no free will, there is no "ME"... But what about refuting the external world? or "Oneness ...

If we take 'cause' and 'effect' . . .
If there REALLY IS cause and effect, then this can only be true if there is a 'thing' that is a cause, and something else which is being affected. Two SEPARATE things.

I get what you mean. Exactly... Cause is doing/controlling effect is similar to "I" is ...

Who or what had these experiences?

"Miro" only exists as a label.
"I" only exists as a label.
"Mind" is just a concept.
"Body".. hmm... the body is not part of illusory "ME", but part of Life happening by cause and effect... It's like a life is that 3D screen where everything is happening, NOT ...

I cannot begin guiding you until I have a strong basis of what you understand the word 'I' to points to.

Xain is it possible that the shift has already happened?
How can I find something that only exists in thoughts? "I" only exists in thoughts. It's not possible to find it elsewhere.
And if ...

But you said that the mind is responsible for all those things you told me about.
Once again, I am asking you for your honest beliefs.
Do you believe something that only exists as a label does things?
How is such a thing possible?

That is something I don't know. Mind can't be directly experienced ...

Ok.

Well, we know what a brain is - An organ inside the head.
Science tells us that it is responsible for many things / processes.

What about 'mind' - What is that in your descriptions?

I give you an example: The Mind is like The School

The School is a label for books, students, walls...
"The ...

The list I would give you are the senses (seeing, hearing, smell, taste and touch), control over the body, and choice / decisions / free-will, thinking and imagining.
Is the mind responsible for all of those?

Mind is responsible for everything on the list except free will . Mind doesn't have a ...