Good morning, Rhett. We have no more questions to you. Welcome to the other side of the Gate :)
One of the administrators is going to send you some information and I hope to see you again in the FB groups or in the Unleashed forum. It was a pleasure being your guide!

Words can't express enough ...

Hi there! I'm going to ask the other guides if they want to ask you some questions or if everything sounds clear. This can take a while! I will make a post when I have news.

OK thank you for everything Sandra! Looking forward to the reply!

Ok, going to finally finish the last set of questions :)

5. Decision is letting life happen as it does. As was discussed, there is no control is making decisions. There is no "making things happen," things "just happen," we're not responsible for anything because there's no "us" doing it ...

Thank you for your answers, Rhett.

But right now I feel like the self is resisting a lot with negativity and further discouragement.
What is this self you're talking about?

When a strong emotion arises - sensations + label (fear) + thoughts (story about what is going on) - what can you see ...

You sound very wise, Rhett.

Nothing else to look at at the moment. So ask away!
Wonderful. Here are the questions - don't forget to give examples from your experience in Q5.
You don't need to answer them all at once. Have fun!

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in ...

"I'm" not sure "I'll" know what to do about doubts when they pop up. It's not under my control, I can only hope to say "this is doubting, and it happened." if that situation were to occur in the future and even if I happen to be carried away by thoughts, it's simply life being life. The "I" is just ...

Wow completely apologize for the quoting on that last post.

You can expect a breakthrough but why should reality happen as you expect it to happen? :)
You're exactly right! Can't control what happens.


Well, if you're referring to the journey in this forum, when you're 100% sure that the separate self is an illusion, I'm going to ask you if you want to ...

What changed since we started this conversation (if anything :) ?
When you look, can you see that the separate self is an illusion?
Is there something that feels unclear? Where could we look next?

Nothing has really changed. Which makes perfect sense. Meaning it's not supposed to be some major ...

Thank you for sharing, Rhett!

These are my suggestions of things to look at:

We usually think we make things happen because there is a you thinking about what to do. Let's look closer at this supposition.

When an action happens, try to find what is causing the action. Is it a you? Is it ...

I loved reading your post. Thank you. Sorry for being a pain in the a** but i would love to read some more examples from your experience about what makes you SEE that life is happening without a separate you. How do you know that what you're saying is true? What can you see going on? Give me some ...

OK,I hate to do this to you, but the unbolded is how I answered the questions first. The bolded is how I answered the questions looking back at it, kind of like proof reading it. Just like this bit of my post was added afterward. I apologize for making it more complex than it should be!


It's a ...

Thank you, Rhett!
We talked a little about body, thoughts, control, language.
Is there something that you would like to look at next?
Is there something in your experience that you think is a you?

I appreciate you helping me a ton Sandra.

It's strange, I feel like I understand and agree with ...

Now compare the two ways to label experience - is one truer than the other? If so, which one? What is here without labels? Do labels affect the experience or just describe it?[/list]

Please, answer the above questions after doing the exercise.

That was a fun exercise, thanks for pointing it out ...

I don't know how to quite edit my last post, but here's what i've discovered:

However I got this thought that lead me to doing whatever I did, I had no say in it.