The Gate

LU is focused guiding for seeing there is no real, inherent 'self' - what do you understand by this?
ive heard no-self so many years but still dont know about it perfectly

What are you looking for at LU?
i want to get out of my miserable life and thoughts and want to know what is no self really is and want to see things clearly not coruppted by thoughts ive read many books those helped me but didnt make me whole

What do you expect from a guided conversation?
want to break free from myself. i dont know how to see it clearly although ive been many so called spiritual courses and seminas . its really hard for me to get out of my ego sometimes it makes me miserable

What is your experience in terms of spiritual practices, seeking and inquiry?
exhausting, sometimes relief

On a scale from 1 to 10, how willing are you to question any currently held beliefs about 'self?
10

Based on what you wrote, I offer my time to be your guide for as long as that is helpful for you.

Sounds like there's been a lot of effort towards becoming free from the burden of blame/shame/worry/wanting things to be different from the way they are.

Is that correct?
If so, please watch that effort when it happens and describe that experience in as much detail as possible.
If not, please step back and look at the experience of the feeling of "miserable" as objectively as possible and describe that in detail.
Or, you could do both :-)

Are you willing/able to work face-to-face at least once per week on Zoom or Skype?

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Pablo