The Gate

Hi Vivien,

I am going to ask other guides to have a look at the thread to ensure that I have covered everything and that my pointing has been clear. This may take a few days. Sometimes, not always, the other guides may have further questions which I will bring to you.

Thank you Vivien and please pass on my thanks to the other guides for their time and consideration. Happy to answer any further questions as needed :)

Tom

Hi Tom,

Other guides have no further questions for you. It has been a pleasure to explore the concept of the separate self with you. Thank you for being open and willing to look.

Keep an eye out for an email notification notifying you of a PM (private message) from the forum inviting you to join our aftercare groups on Facebook. If you don't receive an email notification, you can access your PM's from the forum once you have logged in. The PM also details other resources available to you.

Your username will change from green to blue which indicates that you have had the realisation of there being no separate self. This thread will be moved to the ‘Archive’ section of the forum, but you will be able to access it.

You can contact me at any time if you have any questions via private message here on the forum, or via Facebook if you decide to join our groups there.

Please don’t forget that this is just a beginning. It’s the beginning of cleaning up of conditionings, which needs further looking to help them to dissolve. All sorts of old beliefs, emotions and feeling can come up to see them and feel them. Please don’t stop looking if you want things to deepen.

If something comes up and you don’t know how to deal with it, please feel free to contact me, so we can have a look.

Vivien

Hi Vivien,

Thanks very much for letting me know and please pass on my thanks to your fellow guides for the time they made to review our thread :)

Its been an absolute pleasure working with you too, I am grateful beyond words for your kindness, guidance and patience to bring 'me' back home, thank you so much!

Keep an eye out for an email notification notifying you of a PM (private message) from the forum inviting you to join our aftercare groups on Facebook. If you don't receive an email notification, you can access your PM's from the forum once you have logged in. The PM also details other resources available to you.

All received thanks, will respond to Nerina as soon as time allows :)

Please don’t forget that this is just a beginning. It’s the beginning of cleaning up of conditionings, which needs further looking to help them to dissolve. All sorts of old beliefs, emotions and feeling can come up to see them and feel them. Please don’t stop looking if you want things to deepen.

Yes, without a doubt! At this early stage of integrating seeing into daily life, its already become increasingly clear just how much conditioning there is that will need to be worked through. Still so much further to go, so much more looking to do, but I don't intend to stop anytime soon.

If something comes up and you don’t know how to deal with it, please feel free to contact me, so we can have a look.

Definitely Vivien, I'm very keen to continue our work together - albeit in an 'integration' capacity - so will be in touch shortly. In the meantime, if there's anything I can do to support you or the wider LU forum, please don't hesitate to ask.

With love and gratitude,


Tom

Hi Tom,

Thanks very much for letting me know and please pass on my thanks to your fellow guides for the time they made to review our thread :)

I've passed on your message.

Yes, without a doubt! At this early stage of integrating seeing into daily life, its already become increasingly clear just how much conditioning there is that will need to be worked through. Still so much further to go, so much more looking to do, but I don't intend to stop anytime soon.

Yes, this in not a quick fix. We don't become immune to unpleasant sensations and emotions, and especially not immune to our conditionings. So the question is what we do when an unpleasant emotion or belief arises; how we relate do it.

Definitely Vivien, I'm very keen to continue our work together - albeit in an 'integration' capacity - so will be in touch shortly. In the meantime, if there's anything I can do to support you or the wider LU forum, please don't hesitate to ask.

Thank you for your kindness :) I'm sending you a private message with my FB details.

Love,
Vivien