Help with the first fetter, plz

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Chrisd » Sat Oct 11, 2025 9:26 pm

Hi Stacy, sorry haven't had time to look at the vid yet, planning to tomorrow when toddler is asleep lol. Thanks again

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Oct 11, 2025 10:03 pm

Okay. Thanks.
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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri Oct 31, 2025 4:11 pm

Hi Cheis,

Still there?

Here's an Angelo Dillulo video you might like.

https://youtu.be/fEv7UF8evQ4?si=0quQlOl6c4S5QvUU

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~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri Oct 31, 2025 4:13 pm

Your must recent pointer was Tuesday October 7th. Please do that one & post replies.

Also please post your responses to the 2 videos I have sent


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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Chrisd » Fri Oct 31, 2025 11:02 pm

Hi Stacy, my goodness i feel bad for not replying, so sorry.

I had a definite shift and then lost interest in mediation and everything non-duality for a while.

Trying to get back on the wagon and give these pointers the time and care they need. Thanks for helping, Chris

Oh, angelo has done a guided mediation called amplify and that's keeping things ticking over.

Thanks again. Chris

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Anastacia42 » Sat Nov 01, 2025 1:18 am

Yes, once you've seen you lose interest in seeking what you've already found.
I had a definite shift and then lost interest in mediation and everything non-duality for a while.
We were looking for a shift in perception. You say you've had one. Can you please say how it felt? Describe what happened?

This is only the beginning. There.is usually more after we finish here.

We have some traditional checkpoint questions if you want to answer those.

Will you please share the link to the Dillulo meditation you've been doing. I might like to share it with others.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Chrisd » Sun Nov 02, 2025 9:42 pm

Can you please say how it felt? Describe what happened?
Hi, It was a definite change whilst walking home, hard to describe, kind of like the headless way is described. The sense of having no head just awareness free floating has stuck around, life has continued much the same.
This is only the beginning. There.is usually more after we finish here.
Yes there is still much work to do, perhaps more than before as you say, and Angelo also notes emotions are harder to bury and very raw.

Angelo has a guided mediation app called, Simply Awake on Google app store and IPhone also. Highly recommended.

The, 'Amplify ' meditation is my favourite but it's on Angelos podcast:
https://pca.st/episode/5af55d60-d07c-4e ... 2e475657e8

Thanks for your help, Chris

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Re: Help with the first fetter, plz

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon Nov 03, 2025 12:02 am

Thank you, Chris.

Would you like to answer the checkpoint questions now?

If so, here they are:


1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. Describe it fully as you see it now.

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference from before you started this dialogue? Please report from the past few days.

4) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

5) Describe decision & give examples from experience.

Describe intention & give examples from experience.

Describe free will & give examples from experience.

Describe choice & give examples from experience.

Describe control & give examples from experience.

What makes things happen? How does it work?

What are you responsible for? Give examples from experience.

6) Anything to add?


Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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