What is real?

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Re: What is real?

Postby LillaLilla » Fri Sep 25, 2026 8:54 am

Hi Rali,
Does thought actually move the body, or do thought, sensation and movement simply appear?
Thought doesn't actually move the body. Thought appears, then the body moves.
What makes things happen — is a controller found, or only conditions unfolding?
There is no controller found. Conditions merely unfold.

And although no separate responsible self is found, does practical responsibility still function in everyday life?
Yes, it does. For example when unkind things are said, apology appears as well. Or when the child is ill, a doctor's appointment is made. Etc. 

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Lilla

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Re: What is real?

Postby poppyseed » Fri Sep 25, 2026 8:36 pm

Hi Lilla
Wonderful!
Thought appears, then the body moves.
Yes! And sensations happen, thought happens. And even that is a story :)

I’ll pass your answers to the other guides to see whether there is anything we may have overlooked or anything else worth looking at. Please stay close in case they have any questions!
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Rali
Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in. ~Alan Alda
The mind that aims to understand reality can consider itself satisfied only by reducing it to terms of thought. ~ Albert Camus

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Re: What is real?

Postby poppyseed » Sat Sep 26, 2026 12:27 pm

Hi Lilla
Welcome home!

It appears that the Gateless Gate has been crossed, but as you know there is no Gate, no one to cross it, and no end to the journey. It has been such a pleasure to walk beside you! Your openness and willingness to look were simply awesome and made guiding you a joy. Of course it is not necessarily the end of our conversation.

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Please don’t forget that this is just the beginning of exploring. It’s the beginning of cleaning up of all sorts of old beliefs. Emotions and feelings can show up to be seen and felt, so don’t stop looking! Please feel free to contact me, so we can have a look together, if you like.

You can also consider being a guide, if you’re willing to explore it, when you feel ready. It can be very rewarding and it help you deepen your understanding.

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You can also explore the ten Fetters, which is a structured way of approaching beliefs:
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Pernille Damore and Todd Lent https://www.youtube.com/@TheAwakeningCurriculum

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Rali
Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in. ~Alan Alda
The mind that aims to understand reality can consider itself satisfied only by reducing it to terms of thought. ~ Albert Camus

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Re: What is real?

Postby LillaLilla » Sun Sep 27, 2026 7:29 pm

Dear Rali,

I must admit, there were some tears when reading your words. Some things have changed in the perception, and there is so much joy in exploring it further. I'm gonna look into groups and websites you've sent, and I'd like to keep in touch with you as well.
Your clear way of explaining was really helpful and I appreciated your empathy and patience when there were sticky points or the looking didn't go easy.

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Lilla

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Re: What is real?

Postby poppyseed » Mon Sep 28, 2026 9:00 am

Hi Lilla
Thank you for these words. It has been a joy to watch the looking become clearer and more natural.
Keep exploring in the same way: gently, directly, and with honesty about what is actually here.
And yes, please do keep in touch. I’d be very happy to hear how things continue to unfold.
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Rali
Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in. ~Alan Alda
The mind that aims to understand reality can consider itself satisfied only by reducing it to terms of thought. ~ Albert Camus


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