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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby foo » Thu May 21, 2026 11:48 pm

Do you really have responsibilities?
They are just thoughts, with content likely dependent on past conditioning and current inputs.

Can you explain how desires falls into anything we have discussed? They seem to manifest as a pulling or pushing in the body.
If you mean donating, you can do that with PayPal, Zelle. or Venmo. stacy@stacyannclark.com Thank you
May I get your Venmo username? Putting your email in Venmo or Zelle did not find a user.
Becoming a guide is another way
Is there a webpage documenting the process and expectations?

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri May 22, 2026 12:28 am

Yes, desire is the 4th Fetter. We only cover the first 3 here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fetter_(Buddhism)

You can get to that after we finish here.

Venmo - try anastacia42

This LU site is being glitchy right now. I think there's a link on the cover page. I can't verify that right now.

Basically you choose a mentor & they give you resources & monitor your first couple of threads.

Your answers will be shared with other guides and they may have questions. Stay tune

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"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Fri May 22, 2026 1:32 am

Thank you very much!

Our system administrator is working on the site.

Loving
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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby foo » Sun May 24, 2026 7:32 pm

Thank you for those advanced meditation techniques. Insightful. Fun. Do you know who the presenter is? Anything else you would like to share?

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Sun May 24, 2026 9:35 pm

You're welcome.

Yes I was there. But he only did 1 or 2 of those classes and went into a totally different business. He asked me not to share his name.

Yes.

JUST LOOK.

;)

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby foo » Mon May 25, 2026 4:47 am

"Stop looking for, just look". Thank you Stacy ;)

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon May 25, 2026 12:24 pm

Good

You're welcome.
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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jun 04, 2026 6:23 pm

Are you still there?
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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby foo » Thu Jun 04, 2026 6:26 pm

Yes! "Looking" at the 4th and 5th fetter now.

Would also like to help guide.

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jun 04, 2026 6:49 pm

If you have clearly seen there's no self we have some traditional checkpoint questions. These will be shared with other guides who may have questions. We'll go from there.

Here they are:

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. Describe it fully as you see it now.

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference from before you started this dialogue? Please report from the past few days.

4) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

5) Describe decision & give examples from experience.

Describe intention & give examples from experience.

Describe free will & give examples from experience.

Describe choice & give examples from experience.

Describe control & give examples from experience.

What makes things happen? How does it work?

What are you responsible for? Give examples from experience.

6) Anything to add?


Loving,
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~ Adyashanti

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby foo » Thu Jun 04, 2026 7:07 pm

:) Stacy you already asked these questions a few weeks ago. Answers haven't changed.

Would only add that every day I see a little clearer, and demand a little less from myself.

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Re: I could use some help :)

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jun 04, 2026 7:25 pm

Sorry. I got a little mixed up with the site being so up & down.

I'll share your answers with other guides who may have questions and we'll go from there. Stay tuned.

Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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