Letting Go

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Re: Letting Go

Postby swsimons » Tue Feb 24, 2026 8:29 pm

Has there been a shift in perception?
Yes, when I think about it that way there has been. Not so much as a direct feeling or sensation in the body, but more subtly in my reaction to stuff. I haven’t been getting nearly as anxious as I had in the past during certain events or situations. Also, my work is quite slow right now, which is typical with seasonal fluctuation, that in the past I would have been extremely concerned about. I am still concerned, just to a way lesser degree.
Has seeking stopped?
It has. Another question that when I stop and think about it I realize that I have stopped the seeking. I was one to be looking for the next self help book all the time and have a kindle library full of them. This year the only ones I have looked at are related to finding the truth of no “I” and the looking for new books has been few and far between.

At the same time, I still would like to continue this, not as seeking but more so just to continue the progress.

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Re: Letting Go

Postby Anastacia42 » Tue Feb 24, 2026 9:22 pm

We do not guide past Fetter 3 here on the forum. Fetter 1 is seeing that there is no self. Fetter 2 is doubt. Fetter 3 is rites and rituals, usually designed to protect the non existent self, so that goes away all in one chunk.

There are other groups for further exploration.

We have some traditional checkpoint questions for you. Then other guides will read them & may have questions.

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. Describe it fully as you see it now.

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference from before you started this dialogue? Please report from the past few days.

4) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

5) Describe decision & give examples from experience.

Describe intention & give examples from experience.

Describe free will & give examples from experience.

Describe choice & give examples from experience.

Describe control & give examples from experience.

What makes things happen? How does it work?

What are you responsible for? Give examples from experience.

6) Anything to add?

Please use the Quote function & give simple answers, one at a time.

Loving
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Letting Go

Postby Anastacia42 » Wed Mar 04, 2026 10:25 am

Are you ghosting or still there?

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"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: Letting Go

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Mar 19, 2026 12:29 pm

Thursday 19th of March
MEETING WITH ILONA TODAY
 
Hello

The Shift in Perception Simplified

At the next Zoom meeting, I will share something that can help you see what this shift in perception actually is.

I’ve been exploring this with my private clients, and now I’d like to open it to you as well, and to those who follow my YouTube channel. It is very simple and easy to see visually. When it clicks, it becomes clear why working on problems doesn’t bring lasting peace, and how the shift happens in where you are looking from.

There is nothing mysterious about it. It is practical, direct, and available right here.

You are warmly invited to join the meeting. And if something comes up for you, you are welcome to bring your questions.


Seeing Through The Self Illusion

19th of March
90 min long

3 pm London
4 pm Paris
8 am San Francisco
11 am New York

Link to all monthly Zoom Meetings

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All group meetings are free. Just come.

If you would like to donate, I would appreciate it. You can do that through PayPal here.

With love,

Ilona

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~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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