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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:10 am

It happens when children are taught to associate "I" with real things. Eventually everything begins to revolve around it, and it is constantly reinforced throughout someones entire lifespan solidifying the belief in it.
This is a good answer for HOW it starts and works.
Give me a couple of lines on what the self actually it. (don't worry if it is only an intellectual description)
I also have a lot of doubts about this process
Is that another way of saying you have a story about a possible outcome ?
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Fri Nov 09, 2012 1:00 am

Give me a couple of lines on what the self actually it. (don't worry if it is only an intellectual description)
There is no self to be found in the field of perception, it is purely based on thoughts.
Is that another way of saying you have a story about a possible outcome ?
I guess so.

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Fri Nov 09, 2012 1:41 am

There is no self to be found in the field of perception, it is purely based on thoughts.
Now this is surely an experiential realization ?
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Fri Nov 09, 2012 1:52 am

Now this is surely an experiential realization ?
I don't know... I don't feel liberated at all.

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Fri Nov 09, 2012 2:03 am

There is no self to be found in the field of perception
This is straight forward experiencing, right ?
it is purely based on thoughts.
This is a (reluctant) realization, right ?
I don't feel liberated at all
This is something else.
How do you know what it feels like to be liberated ?
What do your thoughts tell you that it is like ?
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Fri Nov 09, 2012 2:14 am

There is no self to be found in the field of perception
This is straight forward experiencing, right ?
Maybe.
This is a (reluctant) realization, right
Yes.

The self is deeply rooted and won't go away.
How do you know what it feels like to be liberated ?
Reading things written by other people.
What do your thoughts tell you that it is like ?
That I should initially have a permanent knowing of no-self, or some feeling/relief to confirm the seeing.

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Fri Nov 09, 2012 2:57 am

Ali wrote:There is no self to be found in the field of perception
vince said; This is straight forward experiencing, right ?
Ali said; Maybe.
Can direct perception be anything other than experiential ?
The self is deeply rooted and won't go away.
The self that you can't perceive ?
Maybe it is that the story of self is ingrained habit ??
Reading things written by other people.
Big trap here. As everybody is unique, so their experiencing is unique. In the past 12 months here at LiberationUnleashed i have seem well over a hundred people wake up, and none had the same experience. Most laughed at the 'ordinariness' of it. (the cosmic joke) Those few who had a profound experience were dismayed to find it fading (usually within a few weeks and some in hours)
If you rely on stories of others for a yardstick, you are setting yourself up for suffering.
ONLY YOU can validate this for you !
That I should initially have a permanent knowing of no-self
This might happen after many years of deepening (post gate)
or some feeling/relief to confirm the seeing.
Yes, some indication. Not necessarily feeling. As feelings are the physical manifestation of thought, there likely will be feelings associated with it. But the thought that generates the feeling will be the way Recognition is communicated to you, and so won't be thought that is a response to other thoughts. It will be thought that puts into words (inadequately) the experiencing of a recognition.
For me it was the recognition that everything that exists in experiencing (now), is IT. (REALITY)
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Fri Nov 09, 2012 3:21 am

This might happen after many years of deepening (post gate)
This is quite disheartening.. the self will constantly resurface? What exactly is "post gate"?
Can direct perception be anything other than experiential ?
Thoughts about it can.
Maybe it is that the story of self is ingrained habit ??
Yes, that is what I meant.
Yes, some indication.
I will have to keep seeing then, as I have received no indication of seeing no self.

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Fri Nov 09, 2012 4:12 am

the self will constantly resurface?
The story of self will always be there. You just wont identify with it anymore. It has its' uses.
What exactly is "post gate"?
After awakening (liberation)
Thoughts about it can.
Thoughts about perception are not perception.
the story of self is ingrained habit ??
Yes, that is what I meant.
The brain will rewire when you start seeing reality without the filter of stories. Habit will weaken.
I will have to keep seeing then
Keep LOOKING, until SEEing happens...
I have received no indication of seeing no self.
Yes you have. You have discounted them because they weren't what you expected (hoped for)
You will never see 'no self'. How can you see what is not there ?
It is the LOOKING that will position you to recognise that no self is required for life-ing to happen. That the mind/body is quite competent to operate without a controller (I, me, self)

It's unlikely that you will be disappointed, as behind any crap that might occur (and less of that will happen) there will be a sense of OK-ness. After all THIS IS IT ! and This can't be any other way...
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Fri Nov 09, 2012 4:57 am

This article might be of value for you. (your expectations)
http://www.buddhanet.net/budasa12.htm
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:40 pm

Yes you have. You have discounted them because they weren't what you expected (hoped for)
No, I haven't.

Thoughts about perception are not perception.
Yes, so I can't "tell" you experiential evidence.
Keep LOOKING, until SEEing happens...
I can look but I can't "see" what you are pointing to, and I still see separation.
This article might be of value for you. (your expectations)
http://www.buddhanet.net/budasa12.htm
Okay, I'll read this later.
After all THIS IS IT !
So then why does it feel otherwise? Why does one need to look for liberation if this is it?

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Sat Nov 10, 2012 6:03 am

Thoughts about perception are not perception.
Yes, so I can't "tell" you experiential evidence.
You can report what you perceive. Reporting are the original thoughts i mentioned earlier. Only thoughts that arise from other thoughts are concept. (although you might use concept - metaphor to report)
and I still see separation.
Do you "see" separation, or do you just assume it ? (a logical conclusion)
So then why does it feel otherwise?
Stories. The "feelings" are the result of believing stories.
Why does one need to look for liberation if this is it?
One doesn't "need" to. You could just continue to live with the delusion. i imagine that some dissatisfaction with that, prompted you to 'seek' something better. Liberation will certainly change the quality of life-ing for you.
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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby vinceschubert » Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:13 pm

liberation starts with recognising some illusions

http://www.1ness.info

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Mon Nov 12, 2012 3:07 am

I suppose I understand a lot of it, thanks for the video. I'll probably watch it again later.

I think you may need to ask me more questions now.

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Re: I Need Guidance

Postby Noobstorm » Mon Nov 12, 2012 3:12 am

Do you "see" separation, or do you just assume it ? (a logical conclusion)
I don't know how to "see" the lack of separation, I can only assume the viewpoint. :(


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