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I don't know

Postby NicoF » Fri Jun 20, 2025 9:09 am

LU is focused guiding for seeing there is no real, inherent 'self' - what do you understand by this?
'Self' or 'ego' are just concepts that belong to the dimension of thought; thought is a model about reality, but is not reality (like menu vs actual dishes). So ego is not found in perception of reality, has no experience tied to it, it's just an illusion made by the mind when it considers body as center of experience, separated from environment

What are you looking for at LU?
Having a better 'understanding' of non-duality, getting new insights and views about it, keeping in touch with people who share this path of inquiry and research. Maybe just by reading the forum, maybe by also asking my questions or sharing my insights

What do you expect from a guided conversation?
What do I expect from a guided conversation? Nice question. Well, from a guided conversation I expect to have explanation about non-duality, from people with more experience and a deeper view about this.

What is your experience in terms of spiritual practices, seeking and inquiry?
Some years of sporadic meditation. A course about mindfulness some years ago. A friend told me about non-duality and taught me the basic. Non dual youtube videos and satsangs. Nondual retreat in Barcelona with Lubo and Luchana

On a scale from 1 to 10, how willing are you to question any currently held beliefs about 'self? 8

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Re: I don't know

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon Jul 14, 2025 1:05 pm

Good morning, Nico.

Welcome. First, why only 8 on willingness to question beliefs about "self?"

Second, there will be very little, if any, explanation. The process here is Direct Looking. It is experiential, not mental. Besides, we have no idea how anything works. Explanations are just made up stories.

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"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti

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Re: I don't know

Postby Anastacia42 » Thu Jul 24, 2025 9:39 pm

Hi Nico,

Do you still want to be guided here?
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"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

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Re: I don't know

Postby NicoF » Tue Aug 26, 2025 11:39 am

Hello Anastacia,
nice to meet you and thank you for your reply!

To answer your question: I felt 9 or 10 were too enthusiastic or nerdy

Maybe even liberation needs a counterpoint, like the most beautiful melodies. The secondary musical line exalts the main one by difference and opposition, and I feel it's the same in cosmic/inner symphony. No need to feel 100% convinced about anything

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Re: I don't know

Postby Anastacia42 » Tue Aug 26, 2025 1:18 pm

No, I'll be askig you later whether you can say 100% there is no separate "self." We are not finished until you see that.

There is a kind of counterpoint. It is the stories the mind makes up that are not real.

Here is my usual introduction. Please answer the questions in blue, using the Quote Function as described below & in the instruction video.

My name is Stacy and I can be your guide, if you would like.

One thing that is helpful is to come to this forum
& post every day. Sometimes the site goes down. It will be back. Just come back later.


Yes, if once in a while you must post later, please post a note telling me when you will return.

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http://liberationunleashed.com/disclaimer-2/

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http://liberationunleashed.com/about/faq/#faq-1041

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1. Post at least once a day, or every second day. If you need more time, or are unable to post for several days, just write a quick post on your thread to let me know please.

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3. This exploration is based on actual experience (AE) - smell, taste, sound, sensation, color and observed thoughts. Long-winded analytical and philosophical answers are best avoided and may even hinder progress. This is not a self-improvement process. There is no ‘self’ to improve.

4. Put aside all other teachings, philosophies, rituals, practices, books/reading and so on for the remainder of this investigation. Really put all your effort and attention in to seeing this reality, as it is. If you have a daily meditation practice, it is fine to continue that but is not necessary for this exploration.

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How will life change?
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Loving,
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Re: I don't know

Postby Anastacia42 » Mon Sep 15, 2025 11:04 am

Do you still want to be guided?

From my first post:

One thing that is helpful is to come to this forum
& post every day. Sometimes the site goes down. It will be back. Just come back later.


Loving,
~ Stacy

"Thought is a garbage can. If you look into the garbage can, all you will get is garbage."

~ Adyashanti


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