Recognition

[PJB]

LU is focused guiding for seeing there is no real, inherent 'self' - what do you understand by this?
It is understood that their is no doership, that life is just happening.

What are you looking for at LU?
Someone who will guide me through the fear barrier, the anxiety that ‘I’ will cease to exist. There is an apparent sense urgency, after many years of seeking/inquiring that this needs to be seen. It feels imperative to get it done.

What do you expect from a guided conversation?
Clear recognition of my true nature. An end to seeking, an end to suffering, an end to anxiety and fear, an end to the daisy chain of thoughts. A resolution to what was begun many years ago. Peace. Equanimity.

What is your experience in terms of spiritual practices, seeking and inquiry?
Many years, on and off, of seeking. I have attended a couple of retreats (Paul Hedderman, Rupert Spira).

On a scale from 1 to 10, how willing are you to question any currently held beliefs about 'self?
11

[StaffordJR]

LU is focused guiding for seeing there is no real, inherent 'self' - what do you understand by this?
It is understood that their is no doership, that life is just happening.

What are you looking for at LU?
Someone who will guide me through the fear barrier, the anxiety that ‘I’ will cease to exist. There is an apparent sense urgency, after many years of seeking/inquiring that this needs to be seen. It feels imperative to get it done.

What do you expect from a guided conversation?
Clear recognition of my true nature. An end to seeking, an end to suffering, an end to anxiety and fear, an end to the daisy chain of thoughts. A resolution to what was begun many years ago. Peace. Equanimity.

What is your experience in terms of spiritual practices, seeking and inquiry?
Many years, on and off, of seeking. I have attended a couple of retreats (Paul Hedderman, Rupert Spira).

On a scale from 1 to 10, how willing are you to question any currently held beliefs about 'self?
11

Hi PJB, I'm Stafford Riggs and Welcome to LU...!!!
Please forgive the wait & if You are still interested I would Love to Guide You...!?! Please just let me know and We can start at soon as I see Your Reply...?!? Sending Peace Love Life & Laughter
Stafford ;~}=_={~;

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[PJB]

Hi Stafford.

Many thanks for agreeing to guide me. I am more than happy to continue.

Philip


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[StaffordJR]

Hi Stafford.

Many thanks for agreeing to guide me. I am more than happy to continue.

Philip


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Hi Philip , and Apologies for the late reply worked later than I thought.
Oh & These Gentleman are two of my favorite Non dual Guides (Paul Hedderman, Rupert Spira).
Love Them...!!!
So Let's Start Here in Your with Your Post Below;

""Someone who will guide me through the fear barrier, the anxiety that ‘I’ will cease to exist. There is an apparent sense of urgency, after many years of seeking/inquiring that this needs to be seen. It feels imperative to get it done.""

Let's make this simple;
What part of Everything You Explained Above isn't Seen, with or without the I...???
Ok wanted to write more but needed to stop Here & See where this lands Thanks so much for Your Kindness & Patience Sincerely Stafford...!!!

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[PJB]

Hi Stafford.

There is an intellectual understanding that the ‘I’ is not a prerequisite to knowing.

Simultaneously, there is a disconcerting sense that what I take myself to be is merely a series of thoughts/memories, particularly when I look for the source of thoughts.


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[StaffordJR]

Hi Stafford.

There is an intellectual understanding that the ‘I’ is not a prerequisite to knowing.

Simultaneously, there is a disconcerting sense that what I take myself to be is merely a series of thoughts/memories, particularly when I look for the source of thoughts.


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Hi Philip Yes, Intellectual Knowledge isn't a prerequisite to Knowing & does Knowing Require Knowledge...!?!
Now let's look at the Sense Sight Sound Touch Taste Breathing & Thinking.
Take a look at when they Happen not what they are pointing at...!?! Let me know when You're Doing Senses or are they Doing & or Creating a You I me. ???
Ok Stopping here & Please Let me know how this sets Sending much Love Stafford

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[StaffordJR]

Hi Stafford.

There is an intellectual understanding that the ‘I’ is not a prerequisite to knowing.

Simultaneously, there is a disconcerting sense that what I take myself to be is merely a series of thoughts/memories, particularly when I look for the source of thoughts.


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Hi Philip Yes, Intellectual Knowledge isn't a prerequisite to Knowing & does Knowing Require Knowledge...!?!
Now let's look at the Sense Sight Sound Touch Taste Breathing & Thinking.
Take a look at when they Happen not what they are pointing at...!?! Let me know when You're Doing Senses or are they Doing & or Creating a You I me. ???
Ok Stopping here & Please Let me know how this sets Sending much Love Stafford

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??? Was it something I didn't say...???

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[PJB]

Who is the one who knows thinking, moving, seeing, etc? Why do I feel so alone, even with old friends?




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[StaffordJR]

Who is the one who knows thinking, moving, seeing, etc? Why do I feel so alone, even with old friends?




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Hi Philip, Thank You for Being Patient with me...!!!
Apologies for Late reply. Never enough time for me Lol & Who is that one called ME (Mysterious Entity) (Mental Energy) Who ect?
And when there's a disconcerting sense, that's pretty unique & Individual to us as supposed human beings, even as popular as it is now !?!
No one wants to know this & that can be so isolated as it seems...!!!
Nobody wants to be No body Right & All Love cuz Feeling You...!!! However if We look at the word Alone & find the root word One (All One) ALONE do You See it & Gone drop the G/One or G.ON.E. (Go On Eternity) Cool Yes...!!! Ok my Dear Friend please let me know how You want to continue Sending much Love Stafford


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[StaffordJR]

Who is the one who knows thinking, moving, seeing, etc? Why do I feel so alone, even with old friends?




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Hi Philip, Thank You for Being Patient with me...!!!
Apologies for Late reply. Never enough time for me Lol & Who is that one called ME (Mysterious Entity) (Mental Energy) Who ect?
And when there's a disconcerting sense, that's pretty unique & Individual to us as supposed human beings, even as popular as it is now !?!
No one wants to know this & that can be so isolated as it seems...!!!
Nobody wants to be No body Right & All Love cuz Feeling You...!!! However if We look at the word Alone & find the root word One (All One) ALONE do You See it & Gone drop the G/One or G.ON.E. (Go On Eternity) Cool Yes...!!! Ok my Dear Friend please let me know how You want to continue Sending much Love Stafford


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Just Letting You know I am Thinking about You...!!!
Sending much Love Stafford

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[PJB]

Thank you, Stafford.


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[PJB]

Hi Stafford. I’m on holiday with an old friend. We’re both single men, with complicated pasts. Middle aged, etc. We are drinking too much, which is a long established pattern, and the obvious answer to dealing with the situation. It ain’t working. I’m feeling a lot of anger towards him, and he towards me. Kind of a disaster, really. I’ve been spouting non duality at him, which was a bad idea, as he’s not ready to hear it. I’m here. It’s now. It’s difficult. My own anger flares, and then fizzles out fairly quickly - much more so than in the past. But still I feel a lot of resistance, a dragging back to old tropes/patterns, etc. I feel there’s something blocking me, which is connected to my close. relationships. There’s a constant hum in my ears, to which I try to connect. It feels correct. Beyond that, I haven’t a clue. Thank you so much for your words. They are very helpful. Lots of love and peace to you. P


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[PJB]

There’s a feeling that I need to work through this shadowy stuff before there’s clear understanding. I just want to wake up. I’m tired of being me.


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[StaffordJR]

There’s a feeling that I need to work through this shadowy stuff before there’s clear understanding. I just want to wake up. I’m tired of being me.


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Hi Stafford. I’m on holiday with an old friend. We’re both single men, with complicated pasts. Middle aged, etc. We are drinking too much, which is a long established pattern, and the obvious answer to dealing with the situation. It ain’t working. I’m feeling a lot of anger towards him, and he towards me. Kind of a disaster, really. I’ve been spouting non duality at him, which was a bad idea, as he’s not ready to hear it. I’m here. It’s now. It’s difficult. My own anger flares, and then fizzles out fairly quickly - much more so than in the past. But still I feel a lot of resistance, a dragging back to old tropes/patterns, etc. I feel there’s something blocking me, which is connected to my close. relationships. There’s a constant hum in my ears, to which I try to connect. It feels correct. Beyond that, I haven’t a clue. Thank you so much for your words. They are very helpful. Lots of love and peace to you. P


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Hi PJB my Friend just got Your message Please forgive the late response...!!! You are So Welcome I wasn't sure if You wanted to continue, but was waiting and felt something so didn't get any new clients. My time is open
Just for us to investigate THIS ( Too Herer IS )Lol...!!!
Yes I have to agree talking with others that aren't ready for This & Close Friends Even Lovers sometimes can't discuss These things, it just causes confusion & frustration at times...!?!
The Hum Yes Great Tool to Use & also notice what's noticing...?!?
We can work through any dark stuff & just to ease the mind it's actually stupid simple. Apologies for the way I've put it but Really really silly simple. The word Question Actually is from Quest a Journey so No Answers only The quest of Seeing Looking Noticing without the Seer Looker Noticer...?!? Notice how that Hum is Humming before the Listener Hears it...!?!
Wanted to also offer a Zoom Guide session if You are interested in that...?!? Sending Peace Love Life & Laughter Stafford. ;~}=_={~;

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