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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Thu Apr 23, 2015 6:50 pm

Don’t really know how to answer these questions. Things happen, thoughts appear, the body react in different ways, judgments are being made.
See in direct experience what happens/arises (I mean in terms of sensations, thoughts, ...) when what you call "taking a thoughts seriously" happens.
Just write down what you notice.
Thoughts pop up (often accompanied with sensations) and some are paid attention to and others not
What is that is directing the attention?
Can you control your attention?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Sun Apr 26, 2015 6:56 pm

See in direct experience what happens/arises (I mean in terms of sensations, thoughts, ...) when what you call "taking a thoughts seriously" happens.
Just write down what you notice.
It’s pretty much what I wrote before. The most common theme is that awareness/attention is narrowed down and a sort of contraction is happening. Then of course the sensations differ depending on what kind of thoughts it is that is being believed.
Most often the stream of thoughts coming gets stronger and stronger.
What is that is directing the attention?
Can you control your attention?
Attention just moves around. There are thoughts coming in later saying that ‘I’ am directing the attention, but that’s just thoughts. There is no control of attention.

Thanks!

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Mon Apr 27, 2015 7:08 pm

Most often the stream of thoughts coming gets stronger and stronger.
How thoughts become stronger and stronger?
Can thoughts do something?

What is happening is direct experience?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Tue Apr 28, 2015 9:43 pm

How thoughts become stronger and stronger?
Ok, it’s true that a thought is always a thought and in a way there isn’t any difference between thoughts. But awareness “focus in and/or out” at the stream of thoughts appearing. This seems to make all the difference.
Can thoughts do something?
Inherently no.
What is happening is direct experience?
Thoughts appear one at a time. Sometimes the gaps/space between thoughts are widening, sometimes it’s difficult finding, paying attention to them at all.

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Wed Apr 29, 2015 3:56 pm

How thoughts become stronger and stronger?
Ok, it’s true that a thought is always a thought and in a way there isn’t any difference between thoughts. But awareness “focus in and/or out” at the stream of thoughts appearing. This seems to make all the difference
Do you mean attention?
For the sake of using the same terms there is attention that is something related to the mind and it changes focus, while awareness is the space in which everything (comprised attention) appears.

Can you relate with that in your experience?

Can the attention you where talking about be controlled?
Is there something moving the attention from one object to the other?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Thu Apr 30, 2015 4:59 pm

Do you mean attention?
Yes, I mean attention :)
For the sake of using the same terms there is attention that is something related to the mind and it changes focus, while awareness is the space in which everything (comprised attention) appears.
Can you relate with that in your experience?
Yes, absolutely.
Can the attention you where talking about be controlled?
No. With all these questions it’s quite obvious that things can’t be controlled, simply by the fact that if they could be, “I” would have chosen differently ;)
Is there something moving the attention from one object to the other?
No, the attention just moves around. But it all does feel to be very centered towards the head/mind making it seem/feel like there’s something there steering things… Just a feeling though, combined with a thought…

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Thu Apr 30, 2015 10:37 pm

No, the attention just moves around. But it all does feel to be very centered towards the head/mind making it seem/feel like there’s something there steering things… Just a feeling though, combined with a thought…
It's great that you saw that. Basically it works usually like this.
There is a "familiar sensation" then a thoughts saying that the sensation means or is equal to something (such as the ME) and other thoughts commenting.

At this point I would suggest you to try this.

Just set some day when you can do this experiment without external interference.
Relax and try to include in your attention everything that is appearing in awareness, start with sounds, phisical sensations and then try to also include thoughts.
You can close or not close your eyes, do it as you feel to be more comfortable. Maybe excluding the sight sense makes the thing easier.
The aim is just to see what arises and see how things work.

Is everthing going by itself?
Can you prevent something to appear?
Can you prevent the body to feel sensations or the touch sense?
Can you prevent thought?
Are they pondered by something?

I know you have already answered to similar questions, there is no need to answer them again one by one, it is just to give you the generic idea of the whole thing.

Is there separation between something arising and noticing it?
Is there something noticing?

Just try and write anything that pops up.

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Sun May 03, 2015 9:21 pm

Hi!

Sorry for the late reply, but wanted to spend some time with this before replying. And just so you know - I'll be going away for a few days on thursday. From thursday on I probably won't be able to reply until next sunday or monday.

Ok, so I’ve spent some time meditating today. Doing that it’s quite obvious that everything just arises and moves automatically. It’s impossible to control anything.
It’s especially easy to see this with things that arises and fades away like sounds, sensations and so on. Other sounds or sensations are constant (like the sensation of the body against the sofa) but sometimes noticed and sometimes not. Paying some attention it’s quite obvious that it’s impossible to control the focus or attention which determines if something is noticed or not, although if not looked at, it’s easy to say that there’s a me somewhere doing the focusing or paying attention…

For a change it were actually quite nice and effortless to meditate today. When you just sit down and just notice and look at things it’s quite effortless :)

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Mon May 04, 2015 10:13 pm

- I'll be going away for a few days on thursday. From thursday on I probably won't be able to reply until next sunday or monday.
Thank for your notice :)
although if not looked at, it’s easy to say that there’s a me somewhere doing the focusing or paying attention…
What is saying that there is a me?
For a change it were actually quite nice and effortless to meditate today. When you just sit down and just notice and look at things it’s quite effortless :)
What is doing all this process?
How does this seeing part work in direct experience?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Wed May 06, 2015 9:47 pm

What is saying that there is a me?
Thoughts. Habits…
What is doing all this process?
I’ve looked and looked and not found a what or who, that does all this.
How does this seeing part work in direct experience?
I would say that there is always an awareness present. You can not, not be present. This is like an underlying background that always “sees” what’s happening. Like thoughts appearing, sensations and so on. It sees all this coming and going.
At times though all the attention is on the things coming and going. Unfortunately most of the time I would say…

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Thu May 07, 2015 9:02 pm

I would say that there is always an awareness present. You can not, not be present. This is like an underlying background that always “sees” what’s happening. Like thoughts appearing, sensations and so on. It sees all this coming and going.
Great that you see this.
Can this awareness be separated from what appears?
Is there something looking at something else?
Is the jakob something that appears too (in the form of sensations, thoughts,...)?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Mon May 11, 2015 8:50 pm

Hi, back again!
Can this awareness be separated from what appears?
No, nothing can happen outside of awareness as it then wouldn’t be registered.
Is there something looking at something else?
Good question. As the attention moves around it often feels like it. But when examining what’s happening it’s seen that awareness and experience is the same. I need to contemplate that!
Is the jakob something that appears too (in the form of sensations, thoughts,...)?
As I don't know how to accurately describe what/who Jakob is, it can be concluded that Jakob only exist in thoughts. Then there’s sensations, sounds and so on appearing. When thinking that the sensations and sounds all stand on their own there's a different feel to it.

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Wed May 13, 2015 8:00 pm

Hi, back again!
As I don't know how to accurately describe what/who Jakob is, it can be concluded that Jakob only exist in thoughts. Then there’s sensations, sounds and so on appearing. When thinking that the sensations and sounds all stand on their own there's a different feel to it.
Thoughts reclaim what happens.
How is it different?
How does seeing all this feel?

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby Jakobo » Fri May 15, 2015 5:59 pm

How is it different?
It feels more spacious. That’s probably the best way I can describe it.
How does seeing all this feel?
To be honest everything is pretty much the same as always. It’s only when meditating/contemplating this that it feels more present. Mostly I’m lost in the world of appearances. I think I need to spend more time sitting with this, feeling into it.

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Re: Do you want a guide?

Postby lorepep » Sun May 17, 2015 5:10 pm

To be honest everything is pretty much the same as always. It’s only when meditating/contemplating this that it feels more present. Mostly I’m lost in the world of appearances. I think I need to spend more time sitting with this, feeling into it.
Great!
What is the exact expectation that you have? What should happen? How should it feel like?


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