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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 10:57 am

Hi Mettasattva,

Thanks for that, yes it's helpful that you've explained :-)
I have physical evidence that thoughts do in fact BECOME real
Could you give an example of this?
The issue for me here is that If thought content really wasn't real then how can there be a future? How does anything come into being....It's not so simple for me to dismiss content as not real when I see that thought content shapes my future. ???
Isn't the future also just an imagining? During the first question, you agreed that nothing exists outside the present moment, it all happens now.

Thanks and look forward to hearing your response :-)

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 1:18 pm

Hey

"Could you give an example of this?"

I could give lots, but one hopefully will do it... So I think "I want to turn my lyrics into real songs, I want to make some music but I need some help." Then I meet someone that agrees to help me and we make a track together. So after a short time span, I have a real song and I got the help to do it.

"Isn't the future also just an imagining? During the first question, you agreed that nothing exists outside the present moment, it all happens now."

Yes I still agree with that...whatever I am doing, whether thinking of the past or the future I'm doing it now. A thought is and isn't real....it's unreal in the moment and can and does BECOME real, and when it becomes real it's now. So really the main question for me is....Am I attatched to a seperate self if I believe thoughts become things?
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 2:12 pm

Hiya :-)

Can you define what you mean by 'real'?



Can you tell me what this is?:

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Look forward to hearing your reply

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 2:33 pm

"Can you define what you mean by 'real'?"

Something I can taste, touch, see or hear.

It's a piture of a car???????????????????????
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 4:05 pm

Hi Mettasattva,
"Can you define what you mean by 'real'?"

Something I can taste, touch, see or hear.
In the Buddhist tradition, experience of the real happens through taste, touch, sight, hearing, smell and the cognised (thoughts happening, emotions happening). Would you agree that things which are real are accessed in this way directly?
It's a piture of a car???????????????????????
Yes a picture of a car but not the car itself. A picture of a car or just as a thought about a car is not equal to the car in reality. Can you see that whether a picture or thought, neither is actual reality?

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 4:41 pm

Hey

"In the Buddhist tradition, experience of the real happens through taste, touch, sight, hearing, smell and the cognised (thoughts happening, emotions happening). Would you agree that things which are real are accessed in this way directly?"

Yes, tis what I've been trying to explain... The above statement includes thoughts as an access to reality. So I'm confused where the disagreement is.

"Yes a picture of a car but not the car itself. A picture of a car or just as a thought about a car is not equal to the car in reality. Can you see that whether a picture or thought, neither is actual reality?"

In the moment a thought is just a thought but to say that the thought is not reality doesnt feel right to me. That would contradict ur statement about the Buddhist tradition?
This is becoming confusing for me... I am not able to make a statement that thoughts are not real when I know from my experience that they are to some degree real.

If I think something I will get feelings from those thoughts and feelings are real in the sense that they are either pleasent or painful and I experience them. So this is all seeming like a big contradiction?

I can see that thoughts of things are different to the things themselves... but it doesn't make me see one is real and the other isn't....from a scientific point of view the things themselves are not real...in the sense that it's all matter and built of particals, ultimitly star dust :o) So in a sense nothing is real. though of course through our physical bodies we get an experience which we call real.
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 5:10 pm

Hiya Mettasattva,

We're not a long way off here, it's all about clarity and tying up loose ends and finding a common language.
In the moment a thought is just a thought but to say that the thought is not reality doesnt feel right to me. That would contradict ur statement about the Buddhist tradition?
If cognition is seen as a sense, then we might think of it as the intermediary between direct experience and the 'object', so while an idea may be cognised, it's true to say that cognising happens (thoughts and feelings arise and fall) but if we think of it as the thoughts and feelings are containers, then what is inside those containers is not a real thing.

When you say that something doesn't 'feel right' to you, is that not just pure speculation?
If I think something I will get feelings from those thoughts and feelings are real in the sense that they are either pleasent or painful and I experience them. So this is all seeming like a big contradiction?

I can see that thoughts of things are different to the things themselves... but it doesn't make me see one is real and the other isn't....from a scientific point of view the things themselves are not real...in the sense that it's all matter and built of particals, ultimitly star dust :o) So in a sense nothing is real. though of course through our physical bodies we get an experience which we call real.
Can you just for a moment consider all that's been said above from a viewpoint that thoughts can only at best be considered unreliable, inaccurate or even completely wrong. If you do this, you will see that the whole defence of thoughts possibly being real, is made up of thoughts only (concepts of pleasant, painful, referrals to ideas from science etc...)

As we continue, if possible, keep that possibility open, once we get through this bit, the rest will be plain sailing :-)

Mike :-)

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 5:47 pm

Hey


"When you say that something doesn't 'feel right' to you, is that not just pure speculation?"

Possible... I get unpleasent feelings in my gut.

I can consider thoughts to be unreliable and inaccurate without unpleasent feels....then "completely wrong" when I read that I get unpleasent feelings in my gut... which is an indication that something is wrong... Yes the science bit is just concepts. I don't think I'm defending thoughts being real, I think it's that I don't understand how they are not really real when they can effect the feelings I experience... and I know this is all thinking... to my mind if the content of thoughts is not real then why do some thoughts feel bad and some thoughts feel good, they seem to have a direct effect on my physical experience.

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 7:07 pm

Hiya,

The current focus is on separating the real from the unreal, let's look at the facts as Mettasattva sees them (you may need to correct this and please do so if it doesn't reflect your current thinking or anything's been missed)

1) Nothing truly exists outside the present moment.

2) Thoughts can be about fictitious things (such as a Unicorn) or about real things (such as the chair you are sat on).

3) If the thought is of the chair, the thought is not the chair but it's 'about' the chair.

4) Thoughts can give rise to feelings which can experienced physically.

5) Thoughts become (or can become) reality at a future time.

Is the above a fairly accurate account of your current thinking? (If not, please re-word as you see fit).

Thanks

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 7:27 pm

Hey

That's pretty much as "Mettasattva" sees them...Yes!

:)
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 9:10 pm

Cool, always worth re-capping so we know that we're both talking about the same thing :-)

We need to test these statements against reality - the only reality we can be certain of is direct experience right now, experienced through our senses.

Would you agree with this? Or are there exceptions?

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 10:37 pm

Hey

"Would you agree with this? Or are there exceptions?"

I would agree that it is the only reality we can be CERTAIN of. I would add a but here, however I can see how all my buts are getting in the way.
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby eyeman » Tue May 20, 2014 10:50 pm

Hiya,

In this case, please feel free to add the 'but.....' The reason being, if we are able to clearly see that thought content is not something that can help us here, then ideas and afterthoughts will not be valid from that point forward.

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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Tue May 20, 2014 11:16 pm

Hey

I not going there because I just get a lot of unpleasent feeling and it is considered spectulation so there isn't much point...I am prepared to say that I find it difficult to believe that what I experience is the only reality there is....life is so much more than just me.
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Re: Requesting Eyeman...

Postby Mettasattva » Wed May 21, 2014 12:21 am

Hey

I believe this would be a lot easier if I could ask questions and recieve answers to my questions but that's not how it works here. Also I'm finding it difficult to see how this line of questioning is helping in judging whether I see through the illusion of a seperate self. Could u please explain how talking about the content of thoughts and whether they are real or not helps see through an illusion of a seperate self?

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