And so much love and gratitude to you vince,
so , so grateful to you for your patience and wisdom and excellent articulated guidance.
How can thankyou ever be enough?
I started in a bit of confusion and you had the ability to totally relate and communicate to me in a way that got me through to ...

Hi vince,
Choice is a good one to explore.....
Before the revelation that there was no I or me, making choices was sometimes an agonising exercise. The suffering was caused by an I that worried about making the "wrong choice"... after all life to an I is so important and one must make the right ...

Hi Vince,

You asked how Sensation, Decision , Intention, Free will now operate in daily life.
Sensation
The Sensation of hunger arises,
A thought says hungry – eat something, need to eat something
Another thought says go into the kitchen, the body walks into the kitchen,
The right hand opens the ...

Hi vince,

Good questions, and will give some examples tomorrow evening.
Most grateful and very happy,
X Elly

Hi vince
thank you so much for taking the time to explain and discuss issues with the last question, so much clearer now. Oodles of gratefulness here :-)

Just needing a little more clarity... all the questions you asked have been answered across 6 days from Tues June 24th (page 4) until Sun June ...

Hi vince
Just in addition to my last post about not understanding the suicide bit...and looking at what is there that could cause suicide or killing to happen.....
Just as the ME or I is created through thought and then believing an I and Me was true, so then, negative thoughts and conditioning that ...

Hi vince,

It is sunday so can fit another answer to your questions in,
actually, this is the last answer of the questions you gave.
What am I responsible for?
Nothing!
Whatever is said about this, will get nulled out because there is NO "I".
And as it has been realised that there is no "I", then ...

Hi vince,
You asked "what makes things happen"?
All I know, when looking to find an I or a Me is that they don't exist.The body exists, the brain exists, they are real, but once I thought an I or a Me was running the show and when looked at directly, it is obvious that there are no such things - I ...

Hi vince,

About control...

There is no I or me to control anything.
If there was an I that controlled my thoughts then I would never have a negative thought.
There is no I that controls my body processes, nor my reactions, nor breathing, hearing and seeing.
There is no I here that tells the 200 ...

Hi vince

About Choice .....

Who chooses?... what chooses. looking has shown cleary that there is no I or Me, typing is happening , the body is upright, seeing, hearing, breathing are all happening without any direction or effort. Amazing!!
So what is choice. Choice is something that happens ...

Hi vince,
Free Will.... Once again, there is no one to be willing anything, no I or Me so who or what would have free will?, it doesn't make any sense any more.
There is nothing or no one that can decide, intend or have free will to do anything, there is no I or me operating here so free will does ...

Hi vince,

Tonights discussion is about intention!

Have been really looking into this.... what is intention to Elly?
Since seeing that there is no I or Me anywhere, then that can't be where intention comes from . Is there such a thing? Intention was something that was owned by a Me in the past ...

Hi vince,
You asked me to describe "decision"
I have seen clearly that there is no me, so who is there to make a decision......... looking for a decision maker at this very moment
No, no thinker, no decision maker, no me.
This is such a good thing to look at vince,
body feels cold, thought arises ...

Hi vince

You asked me what was the last bit that pushed me over, made me look. Well it was the dialogue we had on I think it was early last week

Elsa wrote:I know I will have seen through this when I am no longer getting caught up in the story of a ME,

The issue is not that you don't get caught ...

Hi Vince,
So grateful for the "cleaning up" as a slight push pull in awareness is happening:

3) How does it feel to see this? What is the difference from before you started this dialogue? Please report from the past few days.

OK. Relief was the the feeling, like an oppression lifted, an imagined ...