Hi Nettie,

Yes, I will try to explain it a bit more.

“I” doesn’t exist so cannot decide, choose or control events in life. All events are flowing with everything else in life so no events are separate. Deciding, intending and choosing are happening but they are not happening to “me”. Thoughts are ...

Dear Nettie,

Here are my answers:

1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

There is no separate “I” anywhere in any way, shape or form. “I” is just a thought, perception arising in the mind. There has never been an “I”, there ...

Hi Nettie,

Yes please :-)

thank you
Caroline

Dear Nettie,

Nice! How cool is that?
What is it like to know this?

It is cool to know this  it is a relief too. There is no searching to do anymore, how can “I” search when “I” don’t exist, it’s funny really. That feeling that there is something more to find, discover is what is making the ...

Dear Nettie,

So is there a separate you?

There is no separate “I”. “I” is just a thought arising and that thought cannot be found or separated; it blends with other thoughts and flows constantly. The perceiver of thoughts that can be seen to be “me” is also just perception arising and cannot be ...

Dear Nettie,

The feeling of certainty arises just as naturally as the feeling of uncertainty....
Confusion and clarity arise equally.
Effort and effortlessness both arise effortlessly.
The thought I'm getting it....
Equal to the thought I'm not getting it.....
All life simply happens...utterly ...

Hi Nettie,

Notice what is really going on.
There is an unbroken spontaneous naturally occurring timeless flow of whatever.
And that the objectifying mind naturally labels "perceptions"...
And further labels "sights sounds sensations experiences."....
And further labels bad or good or inbetween.
So ...

Thanks Nettie, these questions are great :)

So there is no separate you?
Has there ever been?

I see that I am not separate from anything around me. When I am still I get that hazy dream like feeling and it is like there is no "me" anymore. When thoughts arise I see they are just thoughts but ...

Thank you for your reply Nettie. In response to your questions:

What are you referring to when you use the word 'I'?
Look.
Does it have color or shape or texture or any unchanging qualities or characteristics?
Can you bring it to me and put it on a shelf?

When I say the word "I" I am referring ...

Hi Nettie,

Thank you for your reply. I have read the above and I would be happy for you to be my guide, thank you very much :)

What are your expectations for this process?

I don't have any expectations of this really, I guess just to be asked questions and to see what my responses will be will ...

Hi, it would be great to talk to someone to confirm if I've truly seen.. I feel like the journey has ended after a few years of intensive searching with amazing transformations. It got to a point where it naturally felt right to drop everything, all beliefs and practices and just be. It seemed like ...