No worries Raj, this thread will stay open so come back any time you are ready.
I suggest that rather than "pick his brains", you ask Neil for pointers on how to open to Experiencing relevant perspectives. You will never do this with mind.

Love vince

Hello Guys,

Thanks a lot. I shall take your ...

Raj, i get the feeling that your heart isn't in this ? ?

Hello Vince,
You maybe right here. I must admit that I am not looking into this process wholeheartedly. I must thank you, Elora and Vivi for guiding me this far. It has surely helped me immensely. In fairness to you all I Probably need to ...

I did not experience much other than a feeling of relief that I finished it. i was more interested in what was occuring during the process , rather than when you finished it.

love vince

Hello Vince,
Sorry. I cannot really put my finger on what occurred while composing that but looking back I ...

First there was a " Me"
And it took so long to see
I was a no-"body" Ha, good one Raj.
Technically there is one too many syllable in the last line. Perhaps more accurately (and with one less syllable) you might have said "I was a no-one".
But, of course the end result is only a reminder to you of ...

Raj, as a musician, how about composing a short song that encompasses this new perspective ?
i like Haiku as it forces description into few words. (17 sylables 3 lines -5,7,5)
There is a person,
He is a musician by trade,
Sings song of few words.

love

vince
Hello Vince,
My Oh My! This is hard ...

Raj, as a musician, how about composing a short song that encompasses this new perspective ?
i like Haiku as it forces description into few words. (17 sylables 3 lines -5,7,5)
There is a person,
He is a musician by trade,
Sings song of few words.

love

vince
Hello Vince,
My Oh My! This is hard ...

I feel less obligated to many things that come up Can you expand on this Raj.

Hello Vince,
Happy holidays.
What I meant here was in a very general sense. There are instances where you feel obliged to respond to people and incidents around you, and it suddenly dawns on you that that purpose is ...

Something I find strange is the urge to let things be. Experiment. You will probably find that 'things' will resolve quite competently without 'interference'.
Remember that video. The idea that mind does the choosing is illusion. Choice happens. Trust and see what occurs.
Hi Vince,
Apologize for ...

Is there anything personal, Raj?
And why it still seems to be?
Hello Elora,
Sorry Elora,not sure what you exactly mean here. Personal in what?
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The ...

Hello Elora,

Now after the shift what would you say who is looking differently at life?
Who is kept in the dream? And what this dream is?

Best wishes![/quote]

the experience of life is the difference. The dream keeps playing and the "I" is just party to it as the assumed first character and the ...

Hello Vince,

a sense of identity So this sense of identity (a feeling) is the result of identifying with an I, and identifying is the process of responding from the belief that the self is actual. Can you add to this ?
Responding to this identification should not make us a slave to it but ...

Raj,
how does it feel to "see" this? Has anything changed in your experience?

Warm Greetings!
Hiya Elora,
I do feel a shift or difference since we started this wonderful guidance from you all. I was a seeker for the last 30 years or so and reading about the "no-self" and the dream effect of our ...

Hello Elora,

I refers to an identity and there is nothing real to be found right now
Was there ever anything real about it?

No! Just a thought

Lotsa love

Raj ...

Hi Elora
Hi Raj,

"perhaps" is not accepted here as an answer :) Yes! I was unsure

When you say "I" what does it refer to? is there anything real, here, right now, behind that?
I refers to an identity and there is nothing real to be found right now

Thanks

Raj ...

Hi Elora,
That was quick.

Do you exist? In what way or form?
Wow! Thats a real poser. I do exist as an awareness, Perhaps.

With Love.