thanks for all your help and the confirmation.
will probably join fb later, will let you know.
definitely more fun here,
love, love, love
cathy

i just listened to the radio interview with Ilona and she said something like: "i "is just a thought and thought can't think, simple". yes, simple, laughing, fun to laugh about it all

Who needed to create a self in the past and how exactly was that done.

it was never needed, just believed others telling me You did this, You are named cathy, you are an amazing student so a sense of separate came to be thought, but only in thought.

Graham, earlier today i was typing and seeing ...

A guide has asked: Can you give some examples of how life works without identifying with an imaginary self

hi there, i just saw this question,
life is all there is, no help needed. examples are this tree growing outside the window and the bird jumping around on it. the whole planet and everything ...

thank you a million times thank you.
so much gratitude here.

Are you a member of facebook or want to join? I would like to introduce you to our aftercare group there called Unleashed where any points that come up after can be discussed.

I am just going to ask other guides to confirm that you are through the gate. This may take some time as they are all over ...

Exactly who will be leaving the house and communicating!? The body leaves the house; speaking happens - so where are you? In an imaginary thought world again?

Exactly who can ever be in trouble again?

yes, imaginary thought again. there can be talking, walking, speaking, no need to create a self ...

Let's rephrase the question: How would you describe what you have seen to someone who shows interest in 'where you appear to be coming from"? How does that sound?

there is just a looking around what i used to think was "me". a real willingness to stop every belief you have ever thought you knew to ...

es, well said. I suggest you stay away from teachings -at least for a while. Perhaps take some good long walks in natural surroundings.

thank you. it all looks like mind ^%$# right now. there is some fear about leaving the house and communicating. again, if i am one second ahead in mind, there is ...

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works.

3) How does it feel to see this?

4) How would you describe it to somebody who is very interested, but has never heard about this illusion.

5) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

2 ...

there is also trouble percieved if there is any review of any teachings read in the past. trying to integrate any other spritual teachings all is just mind shit. no teaching makes any sense right now. there is fear again and no one there to grab it.

So, is there a 'me', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?
GrahamB

in imagination only. the thought is happening i may be detaching, depersonalizing or some such insanity.but that requires a me thought doesn't it.
there was only life being life ever. i just thought it was a ...

i just saw page 3. i've been looking every minute for your response,it was there and i just found it.
life is being and doing. there is so much anxiety here and yet it is not really attached to if i really look at it. on my, i've been working so hard on an imaginary self. just let life live, type ...

there is crying, laughing, feel like i may be going crazy if there is a me left.

oh thank you.
seeing is happening and just be here please.