Here's now it went:

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Ilona:
Ok, we cam do it here. Fine.
Shoot. Convince me that you seen through illusion of separate self.

CFR:
(Unrelated; we were discussing what culminates in this: http://liberationunleashed.com/nation/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=46)

Ilona:
(Unrelated) What is I/ me/ self ...

Lessons learned:

Liberations and confirmations are more effective one on one compared to when more than one people bombard me with their different questions.
Liberations and confirmations are more convenient via Facebook, Skype, MSN or whatever chat than via a forum interface.

This was done on Facebook.

I would not point them to the video I would say it in my own words. :)

No self means life just flows through you. You have no control. There is no you, to have control. It's easy to have a grasp on it intellectually, but how to actually realize it? That's the tricky part. I did not actually want it ...

That's right it was not my words... but to answer Ilona's question, this is how I would say it the easiest.

The easiest way for me to describe is...

Self: thoughts first... action or presence second
No self: action or presence first... thoughts second

I know you have found this video rather craptastic:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-pR5uaS7tI
but it still resonates with me.

Here you go.

First, I am not a ranting type... but who is me to be here?
Anyways, it happened half a year ago, in April, 2011. I was reading Jed McKenna and the Ruthless Truth forum back and forth and had this big pain of death. I said f+"k it, and it disappeared. Not immediately, it was weeks I ...

Do it.