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by Somerton
Tue Jun 09, 2026 7:51 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hi Becca,

Edited and completed version of the prior post. (Is there a way for us to delete or edit existing posts?)


Exactly. The seeking energy itself is here to produce a result. I don’t produce a result and neither do you. I sit here with a system in a natural process.

It can be helpful to ...
by Somerton
Mon Jun 08, 2026 6:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Becca,

I accidentally posted my last response before editing and completing it.
I posted it in order to review it before finalizing it, but I apparently hit the 'post' button :)

I will complete it after work today - in case you read it before I have the chance to complete it.
by Somerton
Mon Jun 08, 2026 6:43 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Exactly. The seeking energy itself is here to produce a result. I don’t produce a result and neither do you. I sit here with a system in a natural process.

It can be helpful to set aside as much as possible the expectations of others experiences of this shift in perception. The ...
by Somerton
Wed May 27, 2026 6:00 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Is awakening a project or a problem to be solved?
I now realize that, yes, I very much treat it as a project and a problem to be solved.
Is it not an endeavor designed to produce a result? Is that not why we’re all here?
A desire for a result? Are you not assisting, coaching, mentoring me and ...
by Somerton
Sun May 17, 2026 6:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Me: There is exclusive coupling of what I am calling ‘needs’ to a physical entity.

You: Right now, in immediate experience, where is the “physical entity” apart from sensation + image + thought-label?


Apart from all measures by which something is experienced (sensation, image ...
by Somerton
Sun May 17, 2026 3:19 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Me: There is exclusive coupling of what I am calling ‘needs’ to a physical entity.

You: Right now, in immediate experience, where is the “physical entity” apart from sensation + image + thought-label?

Apart from all measures by which something is experienced (sensation, image ...
by Somerton
Thu May 07, 2026 11:32 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Returning to your April 23rd questions . . .

A: Vibrational texture of energy in the head has increased. Feels unsettling.
Q: Are these connected?
They are connected by a judgment, a comparison to other sensory experiences, and a labeling.

Is ‘unsettling’ a thought?
Yes. It is a ...
by Somerton
Mon May 04, 2026 7:01 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

ps: I neglected to address your questions from April 23rd. Interestingly, they feel more significant now than they did when you first presented them. Perhaps the wait was necessary :) I will look at them this week.
by Somerton
Mon May 04, 2026 5:59 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

It's been a very busy work week. Long days and late nights. That said, it's fertile ground for observing likes and dislikes, desires and aversions, good and bad, and the labeling of moments as such. The scenario provided ample opportunity for stress, anger, frustration, and self-pity ...
by Somerton
Mon Apr 27, 2026 6:00 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Just a quick reply to let you know work has been unusually time-consuming, and there's some research happening on this end to look further into how to describe sensations without using labels. Your request has thrown me for a bit of a loop :-)
All words are labels, are they not? I ...
by Somerton
Wed Apr 22, 2026 8:06 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

This is a profound exercise. Some are readily experienced, some rely on memory, and some are difficult to describe in purely sensory terms. Another pass and a deeper observing may need to happen, beyond this initial pass.

pleasing sensation of possessing”
A secure stillness in the ...
by Somerton
Wed Apr 22, 2026 3:31 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Who would maintain :)

Haha. Indeed. Who? :)
This is a beautiful question.
Remnants of "I" are exposed.

There is desire for achievement, progress, advancement, growth.
And there is reliance on arriving at milestones, like reaching higher rungs on a ladder, to validate the "I ...
by Somerton
Mon Apr 20, 2026 8:46 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

Re: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

Hello Becca,

Thank you for the reply to my post.

(Yes, we can stick with Somerton for our conversations).

How have things been in the time since you answered these initial questions? Besides the seeking energy slipping away, have there been any other changes you have noticed?

There has been ...
by Somerton
Sat Apr 11, 2026 4:18 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No longer seeking yet wanting to connect
Replies: 23
Views: 7556

No longer seeking yet wanting to connect

LU is focused guiding for seeing there is no real, inherent 'self' - what do you understand by this?
That our concept of “I” is a linguistic shorthand for all we experience of being alive. It’s a conceptual container for all we see, hear, touch, smell, taste, and feel. The self is a thought, a ...

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