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by graceabounds
Mon Sep 07, 2026 12:03 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No self, no santa claus
Replies: 5
Views: 112

Re: No self, no santa claus

Hello Andrea,

Your expectations are rather reasonable, but, that said, all expectations can be a barrier. That is why it is great to get them out and look at them, and set them down as best you can. There are probably more which will rise to the surface later… every book and video and satsang ...
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 7:33 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: good place
Replies: 1104
Views: 161814

Re: good place

with love and gratitude back

❤️
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 6:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: seeking freedom
Replies: 87
Views: 6270

Re: seeking freedom

But still, this question remains unanswered for me.
Who needs the answer and in what form would it ever come?

Who monitors the knowing? Or is responsible for understanding?
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready to pull back the curtains on 'I'.
Replies: 27
Views: 648

Re: Ready to pull back the curtains on 'I'.

Home run Liam
:)

Can you find an inherent self anywhere, outside of thought?
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Jen seeking guidance
Replies: 303
Views: 101083

Re: Jen seeking guidance

Hi Jen,

Yes, am well, really feeling this lovely transition into fall season right now.

I really love the way you are working with the body in this report. ❤️


It’s all thought, but I’m still having a hard time with thought, like hmm are no thoughts true? They seem to describe how things appear ...
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:31 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Running Home
Replies: 92
Views: 25499

Re: Running Home

Here's an exercise that I would like you to try as many times throughout the day as you can. Label daily activities simply color/image, sound, smell, taste, sensation, thought.

So for example, when having breakfast, become aware of:
Seeing a cup, simply= image/color
Smelling coffee, simply = smell ...
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:26 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Stuck in awareness trap
Replies: 37
Views: 4181

Re: Stuck in awareness trap

Hello Whitney,

But notice the thought appearing that it is pointless. Is this True?
No, but it just seems like a mental exercise to bypass anything uncomfortable that arises. I'm still using thought. Just telling myself it's ok if something uncomfortable happens because "uncomfortable and me" are ...
by graceabounds
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:08 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No self, no santa claus
Replies: 5
Views: 112

Re: No self, no santa claus

Lovely,

What name would you like to be called here?

To begin, let’s investigate expectations for this process.

1. What do you think will be different when you realize there’s no separate self?

2. What do you expect to happen as a result of this?

3. What do you want not to happen?

4. What are ...
by graceabounds
Sat Sep 05, 2026 3:26 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: good place
Replies: 1104
Views: 161814

Re: good place

1. Close the eyes and hold up one hand. Pay attention only to the felt sensations ‘of the hand’.

2. Open the eyes, and now observe the hand by looking only.

3. While looking at the hand, pay attention to the felt sensations.

Repeat 1 to 3 as many times as needed and investigate…

Normally we ...
by graceabounds
Sat Sep 05, 2026 1:22 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: good place
Replies: 1104
Views: 161814

Re: good place

Is there anyone to reside ‘IN this’? Can you catch the movement of a self who comes and goes?
by graceabounds
Sat Sep 05, 2026 1:08 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: No self, no santa claus
Replies: 5
Views: 112

Re: No self, no santa claus

Hello!

Thanks for your patience in waiting for a guide. I would be happy to be with you in this inquiry.

Are you ready to get started?
And willing to set down all the books, teachings and accumulated spiritual knowledge for the duration of this process? :)

With love,
Becca
by graceabounds
Sat Sep 05, 2026 12:39 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: seeking freedom
Replies: 87
Views: 6270

Re: seeking freedom

In the middle of the entanglement, when you stop, and LOOK, do you see?


if the real realization is once you really see that there is no self you can't possibly identify with it again, then I don't know where I'm at

Is there a future being chased where there is certainty? Where everything is ...
by graceabounds
Sat Sep 05, 2026 12:33 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: good place
Replies: 1104
Views: 161814

Re: good place

hahahahaha

Can any ‘insight’ be owned?

Can insight or ownership exist at all without thought?

What is here right now? Take a look.
by graceabounds
Fri Sep 04, 2026 1:26 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: good place
Replies: 1104
Views: 161814

Re: good place

Though I don't know what's going on actually.


Great, haha

:)
What is the direct, lived experience of this?


At times a small voice interprets this as "oh, I wish Becc as here to...?"


What is the thought overlay on Bec?

Is the yearning owned or free?



The anchor is believing thoughts ...
by graceabounds
Fri Sep 04, 2026 1:11 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Running Home
Replies: 92
Views: 25499

Re: Running Home

There is no separate me, so it doesn’t go anywhere.


<3
:)

I’m not quite sure what you mean by direct experience?


Direct Experience is:
Seeing
Hearing
Feeling (not emotion - emotion is sensation plus thoughts/labels)
Tasting
Smelling
Thoughts Arising (but not their content, what the ...

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