After our "ending" somehow one felt that the illusion of the I made life being pre determinated because the prevail of the unknown would be some form of conditioning. But one realized after sometime that conditioning is in the "l" that knows and everything else is put aside. A limited, restricted ...

Convicted femeninist, ecologist, ist, ist ist.....
OH, Jon, only one with no l can persist in this flow of the flow.

Ah, ah, ah, Jon. To see through the illusion is difficult and challenging about our illusory personal power residue and my question is serious.
Please give me your insight about this. So far as one can see, l don't have further questions.
A big hug dear Jon.

Hi Jon,
Time passed, l went to a psichaytrist that says that reality doesn't exist. What exist is the idea.
I told him about no l but reality exist and he said yes, it can be that way. I'm felling much better with the therapy that he game me. The addictions of body and mind are falling.
But (but ...

Hi Jon,
Thank you again for your openness.
How can you be stupid if you don't exist? Who or where is the stupid? (ah, ah, ah, ah, ah)............
Today l have been with my parents. My father is like a sun but his personality gives him no space for this.
My mother has alzheimer but see this ...

Hi Jon,
Maybe those questions are already answered.
Let's life unfolding, happening by itself.
An hug Jon.
Afonso

Hi Jon,
Do you understood what one meant? It's not some kind of vanity of some kind of achievement but is correct to hide? Or some differences will be noticed from othes: for example no control and the noticing from others will be enough?
This is not already in my DE.
And if one hides somehow is a ...

Hi Jon,
What l mean is simply this: ls this 'approval' from LU to remain unrevealed as a form of a 'secret' of mine and only to be used as a guide or there is some benefit to reveal it to my wife? Is correct to be hidden?
What is your experience and advice since this is new in my experience?
Thank ...

Maybe conflict is not the right word. Disagreement is more accurate.
Thank you Jon.

Hi Jon,
Makes no sense to talk about this, even to my family if it seems not appropriate: the right time, the right unfolding. It can create conflicts of beliefs even though they exist anyway.
Some advice?
Thank you Jon.
An hug.

Thank you Jon.

Hi Jon,
5 a) We looked together about them all. They are all illusion of the me, the l, the self.
Things happens by itself, with no cause, like raining.
Because separation is an illusion, all things work as oneness if one is really looking and the l is empty.
Today begun with apparent confusion ...

Hi Jon,
4) The turning point happen when you said something like: there is conflict between people yes, but no, there is no self, all there is is ABOUT one (uncomfortable sensations and feelings). This real hit me.
Tomorrow l have a very busy day. Probably the most uncontrolled day of my life. I ...

What IS to happen will happen and what IS not to happen will never happen. IS just life happening, unfolding by itself. No big deal.
But a big hug Jon.

1) No. There is no self, l or me and never was.
2) The illusion of a separate self is the l thinking that he is living his life, managing it, controlling it. But there is just life happening with no one making things happen.
It starts with the l thought happening and stops when looking is focused ...