Hi Pat,
I don't think you're stuck. I think you're trying to understand and cathegorise something that may need to be seen instead.
I have absolutely no direct experience of things just existing without context.
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- Tue Jun 23, 2026 10:01 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Removing the illusion
- Replies: 32
- Views: 4669
- Mon Jun 22, 2026 10:05 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: What is real?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 983
Re: What is real?
Hi Lilla
No. When touching or holding an apple, I can only describe an experience of sight, smell, touch, and thought.
Yes, “apple” is a thought/label that points to sensations, taste, smell, and colour, but there is no an actual apple as an “object”. “Object” is another general label/thought ...
No. When touching or holding an apple, I can only describe an experience of sight, smell, touch, and thought.
Yes, “apple” is a thought/label that points to sensations, taste, smell, and colour, but there is no an actual apple as an “object”. “Object” is another general label/thought ...
- Sun Jun 21, 2026 12:05 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: What is real?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 983
Re: What is real?
Hi Lilla
Wonderful! Thank you for your honest reply. It gives me an idea where to point. Before we start let’s just make sure that you understand how to LOOK for no self in the exercises:
Looking is a matter of noticing what is already here, not inventing or imagining something. If I asked you to ...
Wonderful! Thank you for your honest reply. It gives me an idea where to point. Before we start let’s just make sure that you understand how to LOOK for no self in the exercises:
Looking is a matter of noticing what is already here, not inventing or imagining something. If I asked you to ...
- Sun Jun 21, 2026 9:17 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: 10,000Things
- Replies: 45
- Views: 4810
Re: 10,000Things
Hi Kristine
This is wonderful looking. What stands out is not the answer but the process that lead to it.
You sat with the discomfort, you looked, and it softened. There was no fixing, solving, or replacing one belief with another involved - just looking. This sentence feels especially important ...
This is wonderful looking. What stands out is not the answer but the process that lead to it.
You sat with the discomfort, you looked, and it softened. There was no fixing, solving, or replacing one belief with another involved - just looking. This sentence feels especially important ...
- Sat Jun 20, 2026 1:20 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Removing the illusion
- Replies: 32
- Views: 4669
Re: Removing the illusion
Hi Pat,
Good. What stands out is that every explanation you offered eventually collapsed when examined. That's exactly what inquiry is supposed to do.
Let's forget relevance, functionality and decision-making for the moment. Suppose Harper cries in the night. A thought appears " crying ", then ...
Good. What stands out is that every explanation you offered eventually collapsed when examined. That's exactly what inquiry is supposed to do.
Let's forget relevance, functionality and decision-making for the moment. Suppose Harper cries in the night. A thought appears " crying ", then ...
- Sat Jun 20, 2026 12:51 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: What is real?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 983
Re: What is real?
Hi Lilla
Thank you for your honesty! It can be challenging to become aware of what we really believe. The questions were a means to seeing what expectations you have, as everyone has some “idea” about awakening. There is so much information out there now with so many people sharing their ...
Thank you for your honesty! It can be challenging to become aware of what we really believe. The questions were a means to seeing what expectations you have, as everyone has some “idea” about awakening. There is so much information out there now with so many people sharing their ...
- Fri Jun 19, 2026 9:50 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Removing the illusion
- Replies: 32
- Views: 4669
Re: Removing the illusion
Hi Pat
Good! A couple of things stood out immediately:
But there literally is no difference. The differentiation is just more thought stuff. Thought = thought.
Perhaps we conceive of a difference or conclude there "must" be some difference (because, and I don't even know why we do this, but ...
Good! A couple of things stood out immediately:
But there literally is no difference. The differentiation is just more thought stuff. Thought = thought.
Perhaps we conceive of a difference or conclude there "must" be some difference (because, and I don't even know why we do this, but ...
- Fri Jun 19, 2026 9:20 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: 10,000Things
- Replies: 45
- Views: 4810
Re: 10,000Things
Hi Kristine,
Very interesting. This stood out immediately:
I don't experience an I in my dog, but something feels uncomfortable.
Great! Let's look there - not at the dog and the philosophy around it - at the discomfort.
What exactly is uncomfortable? Strip the label…
Can the discomfort be found ...
Very interesting. This stood out immediately:
I don't experience an I in my dog, but something feels uncomfortable.
Great! Let's look there - not at the dog and the philosophy around it - at the discomfort.
What exactly is uncomfortable? Strip the label…
Can the discomfort be found ...
- Fri Jun 19, 2026 9:07 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: What is real?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 983
Re: What is real?
Hi Lilla
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- Thu Jun 18, 2026 1:18 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: What is real?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 983
Re: What is real?
Hi LillaLilla
( what do you want me to call you? )
Welcome to Liberation Unleashed :)! It’s great to see you here!
My name is Rali, and I’ll be glad to be your guide if you like.
Here at LU we assist in the exploration of the idea of the separate self. This is a guiding based on experience that ...
( what do you want me to call you? )
Welcome to Liberation Unleashed :)! It’s great to see you here!
My name is Rali, and I’ll be glad to be your guide if you like.
Here at LU we assist in the exploration of the idea of the separate self. This is a guiding based on experience that ...
- Thu Jun 18, 2026 1:16 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Unbecoming the character
- Replies: 1
- Views: 177
Re: Unbecoming the character
Hi darorl89
( what do you want me to call you? )
Welcome to Liberation Unleashed :)! It’s great to see you here!
My name is Rali, and I’ll be glad to be your guide if you like.
Here at LU we assist in the exploration of the idea of the separate self. This is a guiding based on experience that ...
( what do you want me to call you? )
Welcome to Liberation Unleashed :)! It’s great to see you here!
My name is Rali, and I’ll be glad to be your guide if you like.
Here at LU we assist in the exploration of the idea of the separate self. This is a guiding based on experience that ...
- Thu Jun 18, 2026 1:12 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Struggling to see
- Replies: 166
- Views: 8385
Re: Struggling to see
Hi Stan
It’s nice to hear from you!
I can’t close the thread – even the threads that have completed the inquiry can be accessed at any point because the inquiry is not something that ever ends – it’s a constant unravelling – and we are here to help at any point with that.
I’m not trying to initiate ...
It’s nice to hear from you!
I can’t close the thread – even the threads that have completed the inquiry can be accessed at any point because the inquiry is not something that ever ends – it’s a constant unravelling – and we are here to help at any point with that.
I’m not trying to initiate ...
- Thu Jun 18, 2026 10:25 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Greetings!
- Replies: 110
- Views: 33129
Re: Greetings!
Hi Blanca
Welcome home!
It appears that the Gateless Gate has been crossed, but as you know there is no Gate, no one to cross it, and no end to the journey. It has been such a pleasure to walk beside you! Your openness and willingness to look were simply awesome and made guiding you a joy. Of ...
Welcome home!
It appears that the Gateless Gate has been crossed, but as you know there is no Gate, no one to cross it, and no end to the journey. It has been such a pleasure to walk beside you! Your openness and willingness to look were simply awesome and made guiding you a joy. Of ...
- Thu Jun 18, 2026 10:10 am
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: 10,000Things
- Replies: 45
- Views: 4810
Re: 10,000Things
Hi Kristine,
This is another very strong report.
No. Feels like only one moment.
No actual experience of time.
Memory appears now.
Future thought appears now.
Those are observations. These...
No yesterday exists.
But neither can happen.
… sound a little more like conclusions than ...
This is another very strong report.
No. Feels like only one moment.
No actual experience of time.
Memory appears now.
Future thought appears now.
Those are observations. These...
No yesterday exists.
But neither can happen.
… sound a little more like conclusions than ...
- Wed Jun 17, 2026 9:50 pm
- Forum: THE GATE
- Topic: Looking for a guide
- Replies: 218
- Views: 66700
Re: Looking for a guide
Hey Lanie
There is a question for you:
What reactions, feelings and thoughts, come up when saying out loud the following sentences:
- I don't exist
- it is clear beyond doubt I don't exist
- it is just a belief that I don't exist
Love
Rali
There is a question for you:
What reactions, feelings and thoughts, come up when saying out loud the following sentences:
- I don't exist
- it is clear beyond doubt I don't exist
- it is just a belief that I don't exist
Love
Rali

