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Re: Jasmine, this thread is for you :).

Postby jasmine » Tue Mar 20, 2012 4:41 pm

ok... thank you... i'll continue here... through the stuck-ness

if there are no labels "my life" becomes part of the whole, it doesn't belong to me... it's just like nature happening...
and there is no center, everything is center...
and i can't really find a separation between here and there...

if i hear a sound i see an image and that image is showing me where the sound is coming from or what it is...
but i suppose the sound is heard from "me" ?

with the finger exercise... the finger still mostly points to me
although my temptation is to point it to whatever is arising...
i'm not sure where my center is
although i still feel a sense of 'i' here from which everything happens to, is seen, etc.

thank you...

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Postby Ilona » Tue Mar 20, 2012 6:12 pm

Very interesting about hearing.

Listen to some music, just hear every note, every instrument with curiosity. Can direct experience of music be compared to description of music. Try to describe what was listened. What was it that heard the music?

Is it me that hears ? is hearing happening and there is no hearer, but one experience of hearing? Is there a gap in sound being sounded and heard?

Also take something that has strong fragrance, anything. Smell that for 30 seconds. After describe the smell for another 30 seconds.

What mind does in both instances: smelling and describing, what are the processes running?

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Postby jasmine » Wed Mar 21, 2012 3:27 am

Hi Ilona,

The direct experience of music is so different than the mind coming-in afterwards and trying to describe it... music is like ... an experience... and hard to describe...

when music is heard no-one hears it... it is more like one experience of hearing as you say...
and there is no gap - sound and hearing arise simultaneously... actually there is no separation between the two.

And what was it that heard the music? nothing heard the music is the most accurate way to put it.
second best way to put it is that this moment heard the music - but that would imply time and there doesn't seem to be any.

The smell was...
pungent, sweet, warm, moist,spicy, acid, flower-full...

the process the mind is doing is remembering when it's describing... trying to describe an experience of oneness... it almost seems like the mind has to separate from the direct experience in order to process it and describe it... and then there is an i there that describes, before that mind process there is no i... just one moment or experience...

hmmm... and i may be very hard nut to crack : ) because as i continue here writing this to you... i still feel a sense of identity

love, jasmine

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Postby Ilona » Wed Mar 21, 2012 6:40 pm

Great, thank you for answer. Yes, mind is only trying to describe direct experience, it's all just a story about life.

Sense of identity?
Where is it felt? How does it feel? Is it there I'd it's not labeled, described by the mind?
Can you find that sense of aliveness, being (verb) and see is here if you don't think about it, is it here if it's labelled I? Is it personal? Where is the line between here and there?

Examine it the same way as you did with hearing and smelling.
What do you find?

And, don't worry about being a hard nut. It's all down to your intention to see. And I sense it's set right :)
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Postby jasmine » Sat Mar 24, 2012 5:34 pm

Dear Ilona,

something shifted as i was inquiring into your questions this morning.
i can see that i am part of nature, of what is...
the mind just comes in just a few milliseconds after the direct experience of life and describes or narrates what has just happened and adds a whole interpretation to it... but that i is not me.
direct experience is not personal. 'this' (jasmine) just happens just like 'that' just happens...

as i looked in the mirror i couldn't quite believe anymore that that was I
it is just part of nature
it has preferences, it believes it wants this or likes that... it just does it's thing... just like everything else in life does it's thing... but it's certainly not i...

i am not my thoughts, i am not my mind, i am not my body, i am not my story... it's just a happening.

to be completely thorough i'm curious about the relationship between thought and body:
when i was looking in the mirror and watching nature (previously thought as me) and curious at what that was...
i said "move a finger"... and the finger moved...
if i say "bird stop singing" ... bird doesn't stop...
the i-thought can come in there and believe it has control and therefore is a self... and is separate because it doesn't have that control over the bird...
i'm sitting in that inquiry... it's like thought comes in and body moves
what and where is the command center?

thank you so much for your support <3

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Postby Ilona » Sat Mar 24, 2012 7:48 pm

How about the brain being comand centre together with neurons.
If you look at animal, where is its comand centre?

And before you think a thought about saying to your finger to move, the neurons have fired and this intention piped in, thought followed and finger moved. All on automatic.

Take a look at free will and decision making. How does that work?


I'm delighted to hear that nature has shown itself and you a crossing the gate nicely. :))))
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Postby Ilona » Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:21 am

It is going, jasmine? Are you still here?

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Postby jasmine » Sat Mar 31, 2012 1:15 am

Hi Ilona,

yes, i am here. I just was traveling : )
thank you for checking-in : ) so kind of you...

I have been sitting with your question...

mmm... it seems that there is no free will or decision making...
I mean 'this one' just moves and acts and speaks, when the command is fired or when the thought has popped into the brain and then it does things. But it is not in control of the thoughts that 'pop-in'... not even the one's that seem more voluntary like "I will go to New York" for example... those 'decision-making' thoughts are also not mine...
... this is so strange... and yet it seems accurate
I mean I really don't have control of anything... ?

I'm still sitting in this...
like is there co-creation process... ?

thank you <3

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Postby Ilona » Sat Mar 31, 2012 8:37 am

Great to see you back here.

It's not that you don't have control over anything.
There is no you to have control. When control happens it does not happen because you caused it.
There is no actor that chooses the role to play or words to speak. All is one play that is playing out.

Good question about co-creation.
How much a brush in artists' hand co-creates a painting?
Yes, there are strokes, there is particular way that paint is applied with particular brush, but can that brush own the creation of the painting?

Investigate here and tell, what role does uniqueness play in co- creation of experience of life?


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Postby jasmine » Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:35 am

hello sweetness : )

so much to report : )

I wanted to share with you that since that inquiry where i looked in the mirror and cannot any longer believe that that is me, life feels so different... i mean everything is the same just not the same...
there is no one to protect, or defend... this character is so free... it cannot be hurt... i understand what it means for the first time that that which was never born can never die...
tomorrow is my birthday... i look forward to exploring what was born...

I wanted to share with you that i am much more free in everything i do and say. And that there is an experience of fearlessness present... meaning that i do not have to be anything... i can just follow direction and that's it.

I don't think that the brush can own the creation of the painting...
And about the role of uniqueness in the co-creation of experience of life... what i notice is all the different "brushes" (humans) all have their own unique ways... the thoughts they believe... and the things they do and like... and it brings such a beautiful palette or tone to the painting...
they are "choosing' the colors to paint with so to speak, but simultaneously they have no choice in what's been chosen...

right now i don't see how they can control their uniqueness - it is just done through them...
i suppose if the thought appears to someone that they can manifest a certain thing, i suppose they can do that through the laws of the universe...? but it doesn't have a cause... is that accurate?

i'm also understanding that there is no cause and effect... because there is no cause...

thank you <3

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Postby Ilona » Mon Apr 02, 2012 8:54 am

Dear jasmine,

I'm delighted to hear that there is new found freedom and new seeing of life. This is great and it's only a beginning. :)


Here are some final questions that i'll ask you to answer in full and as you see.

1) Is there a 'me', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever? 

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works.

3) How does it feel to see this?

4) How would you describe it to somebody who has never heard about this illusion. 

5) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look? 


Lots of love! And have a very happy birthday :))
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Postby jasmine » Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:36 pm

1) Is there a 'me', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever?

There is no 'me'... there is no 'other'... the idea of me existed but that was never me
i see clearly but it is not "i" that sees
seeing just sees / happens
and actually there is no seeing at all - because there is no one to see
it's just one big explosive happening - and wow - all here, all at once, in no time

2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works.

the illusion is a thought
a thought that 'i am somebody'
rather than be nothing (or everything) the thought 'i' arises and becomes somebody... 'this one'
'this one' exists as an idea
the idea is totally engrossed in itself - to uphold itself - everything becomes something, everything becomes separate
the idea 'i' sees, talks, moves, choses...
when the idea 'i' is present it cannot see that it doesn't exist at all
in order to exist, it (the idea) has to exist
without the idea, no one is here (only life - but there is no one to know that)

3) How does it feel to see this?

like nothing happened
it's just clear
i cannot any longer believe that i or you are here
it's not a state that can be lost - there is no i that ever was
it feels... natural... clear
'the one that lives' meets life fearlessly
it's just a wonder-filled gift that anything appears at all! - so intimate... lovely
'this one' has lost it's illusion of control - and so it just moves with much less self-talk because it understands that it's not here and therefore has no need to be anything, defend anything, control anything...
in actuality... take what you need from 'this' - i am service, if anything at all
just grateful for this nothing happening

nothing has changed except that everything has changed
life is just lived (nothing else is possible)

'this one that lives' has it's ways, likes, dislikes, it does it's thing... who knows what it will do next. One movement

4) How would you describe it to somebody who has never heard about this illusion.

: ) haha
i'll give this a try... asking questions would be my way to describe the un-describable...

there is no self
never was
there is only life
arising or happening
you are not who you think you are (literally)
find out if you exist at all outside of thought... and what is left if you are not

you exist because there is this thought 'i' that appears... and then you believe it ('it' becomes something/somebody), and then it has a life - and all of life appears... 'your' life
but that life is not you, and not who you really are
in reality you are nothing and no-one

you are life itself happening as it is now - and there is nothing outside of that
the illusion is that you are personal
nothing can happen to you because there is no you
you can't be harmed (the body can perish - but it's not your body anymore than that flower is your body - it's the body of life)

it's a change of perception that's all... from seeing things through the personal identity - the i thought
to seeing things through nothing - the one that has no face

5) What was the last bit that pushed you over, made you look?

not sure i understand the question...

i saw there was direct experience of life
then i-thought came in and narrates the experience
then i-thought believes it still is controlling because it believes it has this identity
then i looked closer... and saw there was no-one there...


thank you Ilona <3

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Postby Ilona » Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:58 pm

Thank you, jasmine. That was a treat to read. You sound confidently through. I'm delighted to meet you at the 'other' side of non exitstent gate.

Can I ask you one more question:
How does it feel in real life, have you noticed subtle changes? Is anything standing out that you would like to share?

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Postby jasmine » Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:42 pm

<3 : )

yes... i am noticing differences... and things keep revealing themselves to me as the days go by, so i will report what i noticed until now and maybe more in the days to come...

1. i seem more happy... not tortured by thoughts
thoughts have room in me, they don't mean anything... and if i believe a thought and it moves me to action that's fine too... but as opposed to before where there was a thinker doing things, i'm noticing that there is no opposition to what is happening

2. one other big thing i notice is that i don't think things should be different than they are

3. then... what else i noticed is that there doesn't seem to be a past (?!!!). i mean, i am aware that i am in front of a person i know... in a room a house i know for example... but there is no story of a past... like a lot of 'story' has been wiped-out in one big swoop... so what it feels like is that i am standing 'fresh' in front of someone... i may have a sense that they appreciate chocolate for example but it's not 'sticky' from a past - it's more about this moment they are eating chocolate and telling me that we bought chocolate together last year... and it's so wonderful to see them enjoy it - i enjoy it just as much (i used to suffer a lot because i believed in a past)

and so i let people be who they are, and i let this be who/what it is.

4. the other thing is that where before i used be concerned about what the other person thinks of me, if they like me, etc. now i am only noticing that i am doing what i like, saying what i want... there is no more (almost no) mental chatter in the presence of another or of events

5. i don't know what direction my life is going and i don't need to know... it's all okay (it doesn't mean i don't have preferences, or emotions, or visions, etc.) It's just impossible to know, and i'm at peace with that...

6. Some facets of my personality that where like 'my religion' have literally dropped overnight. I only know what those changed facets are as life shows me and my response is totally different to what it would have been before... i keep being surprised by how this thing is experiencing events now...
for example: my personality before really believed in commitment in relationship. Now i can still like it, live it, but it would be a lie to say that i can commit to something forever
or i would suffer if i didn't receive a call back from someone... Now i notice i don't suffer

7. Another thing is that i notice i don't stop my actions... and i have no fear to go up to people, or say things just as they come out, and the intimacy with other humans is totally there...

well.. it does feel like a beginning...
i'm so grateful. Thank you Ilona. I love you (I'm also more loving and kind by the way ; )

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Postby Ilona » Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:34 am

thank you for your clear and full answers. it's my pleasure to welcome you 'home' from which you have never left.
are you on facebook? if not, please create an account and find me there https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001758165632 i'll invite you to unleashed fb group. it is great to meet new friends after the gate and get help if stuckness gets you. happens sometimes.

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