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by durian
Tue May 15, 2012 12:24 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
Replies: 224
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Re: Durian, what brings you here?

This is not an end. It's a beginning of freeing mind from all kinds of beliefs.
yes, haha, that is why instead of graduating it feels like going from preschool to kindergarten! :D

Now when the core has been knocked out the rest will start falling off.
Sounds good!

See you on fb.
by durian
Mon May 14, 2012 1:14 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Thanks,
Grateful for your love and patience through all this!
:)
by durian
Sun May 13, 2012 3:22 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
Replies: 224
Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

In the answer to #3, "you are already—" should have said "you are already lost—"!
by durian
Sun May 13, 2012 3:20 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

1) Is there a 'me', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever? No. Not in actuality as an entity. Only as a concept. 2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works. The separate self is a construct of the mind/brain/organism. Babies are ...
by durian
Sat May 12, 2012 7:00 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Thanks! I will get to this soon. :)
by durian
Thu May 10, 2012 6:43 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

The body, as well as i know how to read it, says it's true. The shoulders drop, the breath deepens, the system relaxes, the spine feels more in alignment. Calmness. Lies and untruths are stressful and not calm. I remember at the beginning of our conversation, you saying something like 'what if i tol...
by durian
Wed May 09, 2012 7:23 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

OK, it's tomorrow. :]

I've been reflecting on the exercise and how much suffering is in the I perspective. The body makes the difference really obvious.
by durian
Wed May 09, 2012 9:03 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

The first part of using I and me, a lot of tension and pain. Headache getting worse and worse, really wound up, inner turmoil, torment, torture, feeling desperate. The second part of words without I or me, the tension started to relax, pain started to dissipate, becoming calm, going into deep relaxa...
by durian
Wed May 09, 2012 7:30 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

it's like watching a movie and getting sucked into it. once you look, you know- it's a movie, not real life. so once you look you know, it's a story, not reality.. But in the case of a movie, it is very quick to snap out of it once you decide to look, because you never actually think it's real once...
by durian
Tue May 08, 2012 6:39 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Re: Durian, what brings you here?

I have read (and so I expect) here that what is seen cannot be unseen. So I expect there to be a more sustained perspective that makes life less serious in a more permanent way than just temporary seeing with lightness followed by return to heaviness and needing to remember to 'believe' in no self. ...
by durian
Mon May 07, 2012 7:51 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
Replies: 224
Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Is there a me at all? Was there ever? Is there an experiencer? No, no, and no. BUT, there is a snag today. I have to say that actually, a few days ago, I felt able to answer these questions for the first time just from experience without feeling like part of the answer was coming from belief. Usual...
by durian
Sun May 06, 2012 4:39 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
Replies: 224
Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Hi Ilona, on the road, more soon.
<3
by durian
Fri May 04, 2012 3:34 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Hm, thoughts identify with story? Thoughts are about identifying. Take another look. What is it that identifies with story? Dig deeper. Give a clear complete answer. How does this identifying work. I was wondering if that would make any sense! :P What I appeared to be seeing was that when identific...
by durian
Thu May 03, 2012 2:19 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
Replies: 224
Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

What is it that identifies with story?

The conditioned thoughts/thinking (for example, fitting events/people/information into the story based on past experiences).
by durian
Tue May 01, 2012 6:48 am
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Durian, what brings you here?
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Views: 20220

Re: Durian, what brings you here?

Notice that shift is already happening. No one is in control of that. It's unfolding as it should at a spread that is the best for durian. 1. Yeah, there are definitely beliefs about the way it should unfold. But if there was control over that, then it wouldn't really be the truth, would it. 2. I a...

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