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by Ilona
Sat Sep 14, 2019 9:00 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

I agree. No chooser does not take away power. Power was never there in the little me that claimed the choice. But the sense of powerlessness can arise. And that comes from programming, from beliefs that may be running. And it’s an invitation to see the pattern, so that it can cease. How is life look...
by Ilona
Sat Sep 14, 2019 8:48 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: out of fear into the unknown
Replies: 10
Views: 125

Re: out of fear into the unknown

How is it going?
by Ilona
Wed Sep 11, 2019 10:16 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: out of fear into the unknown
Replies: 10
Views: 125

Re: out of fear into the unknown

Good stuff. How see that the silence is the answer.
https://youtu.be/vVfvRetanr0

Love
by Ilona
Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:39 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

Thank you, dear friend.
And does seeing that makes you powerless?
How do you see that?
by Ilona
Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:42 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: out of fear into the unknown
Replies: 10
Views: 125

Re: out of fear into the unknown

Yes, the separate self is an assumption. The fear is guarding the idea. What is the worst that can happen to an idea? Does fear still need to guard it? Can you focus on the sensation of fear and ask it gently: Is it a friend? What does it want the most? Is it helping? And what was it before it becam...
by Ilona
Sun Sep 08, 2019 3:07 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 281
Views: 15850

Re: looking for clarity

Great reply, I see you are getting what this is about. And there is one more hook to see, there is no “arrive”. Life continues. No where to land. Ad yet, this moment is ever fresh, ever inviting to experience it fully. Would you say, you are ready for the final questions? If not, is there any doubt?...
by Ilona
Sun Sep 08, 2019 6:41 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

Thank you very much for answering. Here is something I invite you to explore a bit more. This is still tricky to explain because my mind wants to immediately fire out a counter-argument for someone who might be reading this "so you're saying you're not responsible for your life?" Yes and no. What we...
by Ilona
Sun Sep 08, 2019 6:36 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: out of fear into the unknown
Replies: 10
Views: 125

Re: out of fear into the unknown

Thank you for answer. For the last year my anxiety has been regularly high, waking up early with negative thoughts as well as other times during the days when I’m not completely occupied. When I meditate or keep calm it’s possible for me to keep the thoughts away for a while, but then they come back...
by Ilona
Fri Sep 06, 2019 6:37 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 281
Views: 15850

Re: looking for clarity

Thank you for sharing. I can see that there is a deep change. But let’s get you unstuck.
What do you think that should change or be different?
What should no longer be happening?

Love.
by Ilona
Wed Sep 04, 2019 11:06 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: out of fear into the unknown
Replies: 10
Views: 125

Re: out of fear into the unknown

Hi HanumanMark, Lovely to meet you. We can have a chat and see where it takes you. I’m here to walk with you. All I ask for is complete honesty and answering from your own experience. Feel free to share as often and as much as you like. Can you tell me, what are you looking for precisely? What shoul...
by Ilona
Wed Sep 04, 2019 6:20 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

Sweet! Here they are :) 1) Is there a separate entity 'self', 'me' 'I', at all, anywhere, in any way, shape or form? Was there ever? 2) Explain in detail what the illusion of separate self is, when it starts and how it works from your own experience. Describe it ufully as you see it now. 3) How does...
by Ilona
Tue Sep 03, 2019 7:38 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

Right! So is there any doubt? Can you say with a big fat yes, it’s clear what the i is?

Love
by Ilona
Tue Sep 03, 2019 7:33 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 281
Views: 15850

Re: looking for clarity

Lovely, sounds that something is opening up and perception is changing.
What else are you noticing? What is the biggest difference from before we started this conversation?

Love.
by Ilona
Sun Sep 01, 2019 2:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: What we are looking for is what’s looking
Replies: 74
Views: 3694

Re: What we are looking for is what’s looking

Thank you.
It’s obvious when it’s looked at. True. And when it’s not looked at, does the chooser sneak in?
How do you see that?
by Ilona
Sat Aug 31, 2019 7:13 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: The Pendulum
Replies: 50
Views: 2331

Re: The Pendulum

Oh man, I had shivers down my spine reading you words. It takes guts to see through ego trip. Truth is, it wasn’t easy to walk with you. But reading your last post, i see a real change happening. This burning for truth is going to help to get the head clear. You know it won’t be easy, but this is ne...

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